Why does a child gives way to school?

As soon as a child discounts at school or in another field not achieved the results that are expected of him, as a rule by parents and teachers proclaimed lazy. Somehow opinions have assumed that whenever it is about a child's failure, the first thing they think of his environment is that it can be successful but not enough to do and achieve. Parents feel that it is logical that we should apply some pressure garden (fine, criticism, scolding), so the child will "fix". Mađutim, should know that sanctions, in most cases do not help.

For starters, it should be understood that the laziness of thought that it was some kind of flaw or a bad trait to be stamped out, in fact it is the result of some other difficulties that a child can have. Some of them are:

The slow development pojediniih function or the mind-set as a whole.

There are children in their development show a certain "gap" for their peers. This does not mean that it is a mental retardation in a diagnostic sense, but that there are youngsters who later began to sit, walk or speak.However, when you win a development step are able to keep it fairly stable. Such children school requirements are more or less "too much", they need help, and sometimes adjustment of their current capabilities. When they are to provide, working enthusiasm on return and disappear "laziness" that never existed ...

Health problems.

If you find that your child has the overall "power pad" is not bad check its general condition zdravstvano, because when the body is not healthy on saving energy for vital processes, which is why mental functions are temporarily less useful. When you eliminate the problem zdravstvani and mental functioning will improve.

The slow pace of work.

Some kids are simply slow in carrying out their activities. If they urge and teramo to work at a faster pace, you get the wrong bunch of tasks and their resistance to any kind of work. Leave such children to work in his pace, but help them to better organize and plan their commitments.

Family disagreements.

Even the smallest of problems between parents and children can affect the quality of child advocacy in the school. A child who is experiencing it in house prices or less people and punishes those who reject a certain way and of itself because it is unable to keep their love. Therefore, it appears revolt, according to school requirements and to those who have in the house. The solution lies in the reduction or elimination of family conflict, a child will come back alive, and will be able to quickly catch up within the material.

Parental attitudes toward school.

Sometimes children do not achieve school success because they are not sufficiently gained confidence in school and what they can provide it in life. And that attitude can greatly encouraged by parents careless statements like: "What good schools in a society where prices do other things, links, powerful positions, jobs that make a quick buck ...". Listening to these comments the child will easily give up the effort to invest in their school work because it has a picture that he should know that very well in life. If this happens, parents should try to correct their child begins to feel that they value education, but that does not put excessive demands, or that they were obsessed with his success.

So the next time you suspect that your child is lazy, first consider the possible reasons for this behavior and try to fix them, because all your other attempts to "senses" will be of little profit.

Familiarity with MOTHER OF STRONGER superhero

Arrogance, laziness and aggression television superheroes are certainly bad role model for children, which are concerned parents and professionals. An example cited in the Batman "Dark Knight," Iron-mena, and many others. American Psychological research suggests that today's action heroes masculinity expressed by potlačuju other, exploiting women, boast a rich, aggressive behavior, superiority and sarcasm. So, send a message to children that are powerful, but they give different examples - lenčine who smokes, who does not care about hygiene, hates school ... Povodljivija kids look up to them. However, some manage to resist the stereotypical behavior, such as boys who grow up in, and later in life, had a close relationship with her mother, friends and family. American developmental psychologist Carlos Santos says it's because they are emotionally accessible and easy to resist bad role models.

At the same time, boys who are close with his father follow a bad role models. Santos as possible to see an explanation for the fact that fathers experience a closeness with his son as a possibility to present traditional and masculine roles.

Psychologists advise that if you want to teach children to recognize stereotyped behaviors, it is best that their childhood, pointing to bad role models, and remind them of the true qualities of people.

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