For proper development of children is very important that he create a warm and comfortable home and to know the proper nurture.
We can say that the family is the first school of life where the child acquires the basic knowledge about people, about their mutual relationships and about life and its problems. It first gained experience that will be applied later in life. Hence the education of children in the family is one of the toughest and most responsible duties of each family member.
Spoiled child
Spoiled child
The most common and most serious error is permissive parenting education and pampering. Pamper your child does not often caress him and show him love and tenderness, but it too to help and serve, and for him to perform all those tasks that only it can execute.
Spoiled children soon show effects pats. They become self-willed, dependent, selfish, over-sensitive, and often nedruževni because they do not play in the company of peers. Fleeing systematic work, avoid duties and are always looking for who will be executed instead. Such children may suffer from various neuroses, for example.fear of the night, nocturnal bedwetting, nail biting, stuttering, etc..
Too strict upbringing
When parents lose their patience with spoiled and capricious child, often exceeding the severity of the conviction that the situation will improve.
A strict authoritarian upbringing or apply those educators who want to quickly and without thinking to achieve obedience, and those who do not love your child as a burden to them and they to him impatient and violent.
Too strict teacher child terrorizing, intimidating and even physically abusive. In addition to the child tends to reproaches of his flaws and mistakes, yelling at the child and monitor his every act. In such an education a child can react in two ways. Or openly opposed to that educator. defies him and arguing with him or take a seemingly passive position behind which the hostility and distrust of educators.
Too strict and harshly reared children invent various means of defense to avoid punishment and trouble. This is such a tool. lies, deceit, etc. osvetljivost.
In addition, rough and raised children become very rough, unkind, brusque, rude and cruel.
In a poor upbringing rarely found only one educational mistake, but it is typically combine educational. Thus, the pampering or too strict procedure then we see the constant zanovijetanje, comparing children with each other and uncertain background, ie. Hour indulgent, sometimes harsh, sometimes gentle, a moment a cold attitude towards the child.
The consequences of improper upbringing can be seen in childhood. Criminal education discourages the child, makes it dependent, hindering his sense of community and bring it to that to avoid duties and work.
Success in education will be achieved only if we are self-critical to their educational error, if the child has confidence and if you love him.
Do it as soon as we became independent, we have to make it independent, ie. we must allow him to independently perform all those duties, in proportion to their age, can only perform. In addition, it should systematically encourage and instil confidence in his abilities. If necessary, it should also help, but should never be the child's duties entirely by themselves.
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