Each of us every Sunday beginning the intention to spend more time with his family, rather than thinking about money, work, how clean house ... How many of us can put a hand on my heart and honestly admit that the family spends all his spare time?
The rapid pace of life
No one disputes the fact that our lives every day faster and faster. Now the norm is that both parents work full time which implies that children have more activities outside of school and on weekends. It takes away what little precious time you should spend together.
It is important that the more time you spend together
Ask yourself the following few questions and see how much time you spend with your family during the week (be honest!). There are no right and wrong answers. This is a short questionnaire on how you spend your time and way to discover how you can spend more time with his family.
- If you do, do you finish a job until the end of work or ever work overtime?
- Are you exhausted at the end of the week and just want a glass of wine and a warm bath?
- Do you rejoice when children are in bed?
- Do you have time to talk with your spouse every day and plan things about the family?
- Do you often catch yourself as children say, "Just one more minute, I'm busy," and spend too much time worrying about the housework?
- When the last time you sat and talked or played with their children?
- Did you know that you have read the book, or listen to what the child watched movies in the past month?
- Do you know what is doing in school?
- Are you afraid weekend because you know that we should make "fun" kids?
- Does the family meetings end debate?
Results
If you work regularly and staying long hours, it's time to stop and talk with the director. Before you wake up to it, the children are grown and out of your reach and control, and is now very important to consider the time to spend with his family.
Work is important, we all have to work hard and earn a living, but there are ways to set priorities in order to achieve a balance. If you are always tired, irritable and immediately ready for bed, things definitely need to change. Instead of reaching for a drink or a remote control, talk with your family, at first about how you spent the day. It is important that at least jedanpiut day notice to the substance, no matter how busy or tired you are.
Young children can exhaust you
Every parent has passed or should pass through it - you work, bring up a child in a nursery or kindergarten.When the workday ends, you go and take it, and it was sullenly and reluctantly. Since you are also very tired you can not wait to pack it in bed. Again, all we have to work, but consider how families suffer the consequences.Talk to your boss about flexible working hours and try to find a solution that does not mean that a child is depressed at the end of the day. This is perhaps the most difficult times in the period a child growing up, but things get easier as it grows.
Talk? Only the quarrel!
Connection with your partner is as important as the relationship with the children. If you do not talk every day, how will you solve problems when they occur? Try to take 10 minutes. So surely you can, and it means a lot.
I'll be there in a minute ...
We all use this phrase. How many times have you said when you called your child because you think sudomašina must be included immediately? It is a matter of prioritization and organization. There are many obligations, but will the time to stop if you leave dishes in the sink and look at a drawing or a child read the story? Ask yourself and answer honestly when was the last time playing with children, or they read something. If it was more than a week, to urgently do something you totally do not slip from his hand.
Teenagers
Teenagers are definitely a challenge. Although it is not cool to try and be cool, cool to know what's going on in their lives and what they enjoy. Take some time to talk with them - you never know what you can learn!
Get ready for the weekend ...
If you are filled with fear and doubt, when you think of the weekend because you know it will end the discussions, you are not alone. But, to do something about it. Parents and children should spend as much time together and your responsibility to do that. Instead of the common time spent watching such a task, see it as a relaxing time enjoying the beautiful and spend. Try to assure everyone that they love and plan a month in advance so that everyone had a reason to be happy family moments.
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