Saturday, January 12, 2013

The most common parents mistakes


Yes, we all have them. Just when you think - so I guess it did! If you are a parent deeply affected by the parental game they will inevitably happen, and repeat. 

So let's look at your own parenting mistakes - when goes wrong moments where we had the best of intentions.



These parental failures occur in a variety of ways.

The observations obtained by working with young people came to Barbara Greenberg, psychologist specializing in the education of teenagers.

The most common phrase for which parents complain that they were ever uttered:

First You're too sensitive. Really, 'a little' hard resistance are the same age, and you disparage her feelings.Bad idea. Therefore, you are the next time you probably will not want to hurt open.

Second Ignore him. You think it's easy to ignore someone. Have you ever could? It is not in human nature just ignore the problem and do not understand things personally. If someone is saying something that would hurt us, then we will hit it, and the instinctive or emotional level.

3rd Because I'm so so. What exactly does that teach your child? Are your words are so strong and they just give it clear that you do not have the strength nor the will to discuss further. When they say something like that, you sound as if you just want to solve.

4th Your brother on this subject was very straight. You want to encourage animosity between brothers and sisters? On the right path. Keep it up and the kids will soon start to hate.

5th And how did you come!? Here's a big mistake because you want to imply that you are expecting a child better. Child really want something to tamp nose?



Assumptions about children that can lead to mistakes parents

First My child has never been mean to another child. As the parents are wrong, wrong, and children. And as soon as we realize that they, like us, less perfect, we can help fix and adjust behavior.

Second My child is too smart to do stupid things on the computer. Think about it again. There's plenty of room for the wrong decisions when using technology.

3rd My child that would never do. Maybe your child will get drunk at the party, but mine is not so crazy.Think again, because your child is just a child.

4th My teenagers love them, I like friends. No, that's not true. They want to be a parent. Fortunately, they have friends, and you need to care for authority. Yes, nurturing, setting limits and expectations can coexist.In addition, do yourself a favor and do not share clothes with them. It is their turn to be teenagers, not to you. You've passed your teen years, remember?

5th My teenager just does not want to talk to me. It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that the surly and irresponsible, but in fact, they want to talk to you - just the right time, when they're ready, on their way. 

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