You have a child climbs on his head: he wants the house, so he wants the house (or cat, hamster, parrot ...).In some cases, the husband begins to incite simple, although generally not as realizes that this means additional responsibilities. You stubbornly refuse, because you already know what's going to mind: the first child will be delighted with pets and always will revolve around him, and then he will get bored and boring all over cleaning duties mezimčetom for a walk or run, and the like will be left you.
As you already have a job over his head. So, better not. You love animals, it's not about that, it just is not at all like the idea to give a child a new "toy", then you should not bother about it.
However, think again, things do not look quite so. If you make an agreement which will all follow, pet in the house can be a joy for all family members and multiple benefits for your child. But how to achieve it?
For starters, before purchasing a pet requires serious discussion (and agreement) with all members of the household. The child must be clearly explained to the dog (cat, or what, but opt) is not a toy that you can throw into a corner when his boredom, but a living being of which must be taken into account - and that you are not under any circumstances agree to be the only ones who will take care of ljubimčevim needs. Arrange in advance precisely what will happen which obligations (walking, feeding, hygiene, pets), and from the start (as soon as you get a pet) to try to maintain the deal (do not take the child's responsibilities when it "skip" to do them, because they would then just "skip" more often).
If we all adhere to the agreement, the pet at home will be a pleasure for all. Your child will get a new friend to play with, and the children and the animals quickly and easily familiar, though, because of the commitments, the child will become more responsible and learn about the needs of other living beings around them, as well as the respect and fulfill those needs, and Not only that, pets are good for children's health - has been scientifically proven that children who have pets (or children who live in the countryside and surrounded by animals) have a stronger immune system and much less suffer from allergies of any kind.
Healthier and more responsible child, plus treat for the whole family - pets are not so bad, right?
Is your family ready for a pet?
Surely you've seen it in the movies - cute little Susie wake up on Christmas morning and finds puppy sits patiently under the tree with a big red bow around his neck. Suzy screamed with joy, ran to hug cute puppy who licked his face, and the two live happily ever after ...
It would be great if such a surprise Christmas always have a happy ending, but this is usually not the case.Actually happens next - three-year Suzi, who is too young to know what means taking care of the dog, cries the first time Puppy bites her arm while playing. Mom and Dad then take the puppy, put into a car and taken to an animal shelter (at best) or just leave somewhere along the road.
But it need not be so. With some forethought and a sincere commitment, pets can be a wonderful gift to your family.
Are you ready for a pet?
Before you decide to surprise your family with a new pet for the holidays, seriously reexamine whether your family is ready to take care of a pet:
First How old are your kids? Different pets are appropriate for different ages. For example, your četvernogodišnjak who loves cats is not ready to take responsibility for them. Just because a child asks you to buy him a cat, does not mean that they are ready to take care of her. Would be more appropriate animal guinea pig, which is easier on the care and likes to cuddle and hold and rarely bites.
Second Do you really want your kids a pet? Kids love animals, but I do not want them to all the children in the house. Contrary to popular belief, every boy wants or needs a dog. Just because your little game with a poodle at Grandma's or at your friend does not mean it was ready to take care of him all day.
3rd Have you thought about the cost? It's one of the things people often overlook. For instance, a small dog costs an average of 2 400 kuna per year. And it's just food! And there are additional costs for vaccinations, evenutalne disease, collar, leash, toys ....
4th Are you committed? Pets are not a commodity that you can take home, try and come back if you do not like! When you come to your home you assume that you will take care of this animal for the rest of her life.If your child is 10 years old, remember that the animal will be with you when your son or daughter off to college. Cats can live to be at least 15 years, and there are those who have experienced for 21 years. You must understand that this is a lifelong commitment, which includes vet visits, food necessary for the care, but also the time and love that you spend on your pet.
5th Are you educated about what animals bring with them? Do not forget that the animals - animals. This means that you will clean the feces and vomit, have scratched furniture, collected hair, go for a walk at least twice (the dog) if you live in an apartment and everything else that the animals bring with them. Be prepared to deal with such matters.
6th Do not get a pet to teach your child responsibility. If your child is not responsible, the animal may be harmed. On the contrary, it is a good way of rewarding responsibility.
How to plan a surprise
OK, well you thought about everything and everybody ready. Now what? Probably not the best solution to Frodo and Miki waiting under the tree on Christmas morning - and, of course, do not ever wrap the package, as is often seen on television.
Before you choose an animal, engage the entire family in choosing the type, size and breed of the animal.There are many ways you can get information that would breed types and their characteristics most appropriate for your family.
Once you get the idea you're looking for, where should you go? The first places that you should look at the animal shelter. By adopting an abandoned animal, such animal will give a new chance.
But that's not the only reason to opt for a shelter. The cost is lower, and the people who work there are in this business to help animals and found them a good home, not because of money. They also have a good selection of animals and knowledge that will help you be confident in Selecting the right animal for your family.
The whole experience can turn into an exceptional experience for your children. It's fun to surprise you, but it's even more fun when the kids turn the whole process.
When you do everything right, your child will most likely end up with a friend and companion in the long run.
Allowed for any age
Under 3 years - If you have a pet, focus on getting to know your baby with existing pets. It is not suitable period for new pets.
3 to 5 years - Guinea pigs are a good choice because they prefer to be kept in the hands and cuddle, rarely bite and hiss when they are excited or happy. Your child can help by changing the bowls with water or food.
5 to 10 years - Choose some animals in confined spaces, such as mice or fish. Kids can clean cages with adult help, but you still need to check for animal food and water and that the cage is properly closed.
10 to 13 years - Your child is now ready to take care of a dog, cat or rabbit. The child can help with feeding the animals, walking the dog, cleaning the rabbit cage or cat litter, but you still need to check if there are animals all she needs.
14 to 17 years - now your child probably has a lot more activity with which they face less time for a pet.Birds and fish are good choices. Remember, the animal will most likely stay with you when your child goes to college.
As you already have a job over his head. So, better not. You love animals, it's not about that, it just is not at all like the idea to give a child a new "toy", then you should not bother about it.
However, think again, things do not look quite so. If you make an agreement which will all follow, pet in the house can be a joy for all family members and multiple benefits for your child. But how to achieve it?
For starters, before purchasing a pet requires serious discussion (and agreement) with all members of the household. The child must be clearly explained to the dog (cat, or what, but opt) is not a toy that you can throw into a corner when his boredom, but a living being of which must be taken into account - and that you are not under any circumstances agree to be the only ones who will take care of ljubimčevim needs. Arrange in advance precisely what will happen which obligations (walking, feeding, hygiene, pets), and from the start (as soon as you get a pet) to try to maintain the deal (do not take the child's responsibilities when it "skip" to do them, because they would then just "skip" more often).
If we all adhere to the agreement, the pet at home will be a pleasure for all. Your child will get a new friend to play with, and the children and the animals quickly and easily familiar, though, because of the commitments, the child will become more responsible and learn about the needs of other living beings around them, as well as the respect and fulfill those needs, and Not only that, pets are good for children's health - has been scientifically proven that children who have pets (or children who live in the countryside and surrounded by animals) have a stronger immune system and much less suffer from allergies of any kind.
Healthier and more responsible child, plus treat for the whole family - pets are not so bad, right?
Is your family ready for a pet?
Surely you've seen it in the movies - cute little Susie wake up on Christmas morning and finds puppy sits patiently under the tree with a big red bow around his neck. Suzy screamed with joy, ran to hug cute puppy who licked his face, and the two live happily ever after ...
It would be great if such a surprise Christmas always have a happy ending, but this is usually not the case.Actually happens next - three-year Suzi, who is too young to know what means taking care of the dog, cries the first time Puppy bites her arm while playing. Mom and Dad then take the puppy, put into a car and taken to an animal shelter (at best) or just leave somewhere along the road.
But it need not be so. With some forethought and a sincere commitment, pets can be a wonderful gift to your family.
Are you ready for a pet?
Before you decide to surprise your family with a new pet for the holidays, seriously reexamine whether your family is ready to take care of a pet:
First How old are your kids? Different pets are appropriate for different ages. For example, your četvernogodišnjak who loves cats is not ready to take responsibility for them. Just because a child asks you to buy him a cat, does not mean that they are ready to take care of her. Would be more appropriate animal guinea pig, which is easier on the care and likes to cuddle and hold and rarely bites.
Second Do you really want your kids a pet? Kids love animals, but I do not want them to all the children in the house. Contrary to popular belief, every boy wants or needs a dog. Just because your little game with a poodle at Grandma's or at your friend does not mean it was ready to take care of him all day.
3rd Have you thought about the cost? It's one of the things people often overlook. For instance, a small dog costs an average of 2 400 kuna per year. And it's just food! And there are additional costs for vaccinations, evenutalne disease, collar, leash, toys ....
4th Are you committed? Pets are not a commodity that you can take home, try and come back if you do not like! When you come to your home you assume that you will take care of this animal for the rest of her life.If your child is 10 years old, remember that the animal will be with you when your son or daughter off to college. Cats can live to be at least 15 years, and there are those who have experienced for 21 years. You must understand that this is a lifelong commitment, which includes vet visits, food necessary for the care, but also the time and love that you spend on your pet.
5th Are you educated about what animals bring with them? Do not forget that the animals - animals. This means that you will clean the feces and vomit, have scratched furniture, collected hair, go for a walk at least twice (the dog) if you live in an apartment and everything else that the animals bring with them. Be prepared to deal with such matters.
6th Do not get a pet to teach your child responsibility. If your child is not responsible, the animal may be harmed. On the contrary, it is a good way of rewarding responsibility.
How to plan a surprise
OK, well you thought about everything and everybody ready. Now what? Probably not the best solution to Frodo and Miki waiting under the tree on Christmas morning - and, of course, do not ever wrap the package, as is often seen on television.
Before you choose an animal, engage the entire family in choosing the type, size and breed of the animal.There are many ways you can get information that would breed types and their characteristics most appropriate for your family.
Once you get the idea you're looking for, where should you go? The first places that you should look at the animal shelter. By adopting an abandoned animal, such animal will give a new chance.
But that's not the only reason to opt for a shelter. The cost is lower, and the people who work there are in this business to help animals and found them a good home, not because of money. They also have a good selection of animals and knowledge that will help you be confident in Selecting the right animal for your family.
The whole experience can turn into an exceptional experience for your children. It's fun to surprise you, but it's even more fun when the kids turn the whole process.
When you do everything right, your child will most likely end up with a friend and companion in the long run.
Allowed for any age
Under 3 years - If you have a pet, focus on getting to know your baby with existing pets. It is not suitable period for new pets.
3 to 5 years - Guinea pigs are a good choice because they prefer to be kept in the hands and cuddle, rarely bite and hiss when they are excited or happy. Your child can help by changing the bowls with water or food.
5 to 10 years - Choose some animals in confined spaces, such as mice or fish. Kids can clean cages with adult help, but you still need to check for animal food and water and that the cage is properly closed.
10 to 13 years - Your child is now ready to take care of a dog, cat or rabbit. The child can help with feeding the animals, walking the dog, cleaning the rabbit cage or cat litter, but you still need to check if there are animals all she needs.
14 to 17 years - now your child probably has a lot more activity with which they face less time for a pet.Birds and fish are good choices. Remember, the animal will most likely stay with you when your child goes to college.
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