Saturday, January 12, 2013

How to become a good dad?


Children in the first place 
When you become a father, it is very complicated to coordinate your business responsibilities and care for the child. You should be aware that parenting means full-time care and involvement of both parents and to keep the plan when you plan your day. Do not switch on all the responsibilities of my mom, because the little baby and the baby.


Consider the direction in which to develop your career plan for the first few years of a child's life and how much time to devote to your child your time more than anything. A good father knows how to put your child in the first place.
Define clear limits to Mom
Somewhere around the second The child will begin to test the limits to which must go, and you have to limit yourself and your partner to set up in advance.
It is important to agree on what is acceptable - if the mother and father do not agree on the rules, the child will quickly learn that parents can take advantage of it.
Learning about relationships
Your child will learn about relationships from you, especially about the relationships between men and women. Therefore, it is extremely important to be attentive to the mother of the child, because in this way the child to grow up in an environment full of love and sincerity.
But do not compete for attention with the child your wife!
The social role of mother and father
If we look at the traditional family, it is common for the mother to spend more time with the child, while the father is often aloof.
But this is not the case with good fathers - sharing responsibility between both parents and help is essential in building strong relationships between you and your child.
Emotional bond with your child
Although the role of the father is associated with discipline and authority, fathers must have an emotional bond with the child. You can make that connection so that:
• Talk with your child,
• through the game,
• Participation in joint ritual (preparation before bed), and
• supporting the child's activities - in kindergarten and elementary school.
In this way, the child will feel your love and they will know that you can count on and feel safe with you.
When you get a girl child
Normally, all men become nervous when they hear that they will become fathers, but it becomes even more problematic when they find out that it will be a girl. Especially if you did not have a sister, because then you do not know how to approach daughters.
No matter what the role of fathers in the lives of each girl as important as the role of the mother, there is no need to panic.
Fathers are important in the lives of girls
As previously mentioned, the fathers are very important in the lives of their daughters, in some areas, even more important than the mother: -
• Girls learn about trust and relationships, especially with men through the connecting emotionally with his father
• girl learns how to act around men
• learn how to respect authority
• build their self-confidence and self-image
Spending time with my daughter
Many men still do not know how to deal with a female child how to spend time with her, but they have a picture of what is to be a male child.
Often say they do not understand the female gender - but that's no reason to be excluded from the relation of father - daughter.
Rituals that you can have together
There are many activities that you can share with your daughter:
• ice cream after dinner,
• going to the movies or walk the dog at night,
• to walk,
• Read her story.
There are many ways that you will become a very important part of her life. 

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