How will the child adjust to the nursery?

The answers to all the questions that plague parents 

Is my child ready for kindergarten, in order to facilitate his adjustment and separation from parents, how long a child should stay in a nursery early days, if you take a child and take adaptation difficult by being in an alien environment? These and similar questions are struggling these days, moms that are due to return to work must be separated from the child, and with him go hard, but inevitable adjustment to the nativity scene moments.

Any mother would have been happier to be with your child stay home another month, at least until his second year, however, in the situation when you or maternity leave does not protect against failure or you can count on any relevant state support while you are home with your child and while you do not have the ability Grandma service, no other option left except the manger.

First days in nursery

Specialist in kindergarten can not know from one or two games that the child is ready for the nursery or not, as they usually ask the parents. Your doctor can give you a confirmation that the child is ready for nursery solely on the basis of health status of the child, which means that the child is vaccinated regularly, it does not have any serious illness (which would be special treatment), it is physically equal peers, that is, develops as expected.

Adaptation itself begins only after the entry of the child in the manger. Every child goes through that period, just as some children adapt quickly (within days), and the other kids need a longer time (up to 2 months). Some children react turbulent, and some do not show significant changes in behavior. Changes in behavior during the adjustment of the child are a temporary phenomenon and it is good to be prepared for them, so that the child can better help them transition.

When adjustment is important to mom while staying with the child in the manger, the departure of the child need to be forgiven, and you absolutely do not sneak out. Parents need to be calm, not a child should not show their concern and unfortunately it leaves. The child will feel it and will feel that way and that. Leaving the child should not be delayed indefinitely. Long calming the child or return is not recommended, because the baby is crying. The baby will continue to cry for longer expecting to return to the parent.

At first, the child should stay in a nursery as short as possible. It is desirable that the first few days (1-2 weeks), the child comes to kindergarten for a short time. During the adjustment period is not advisable to get used to new forms of child behavior (getting used to the chamber pot, quitting bottles, pacifiers). For young children who are first separated from their parents, sleep can be a very traumatic experience.

Customizing no specific date. It can be shorter and longer, then the child should be more love and attention that they do not feel rejected and that it is not too long in kindergarten. About how long would it take a period of adjustment and how the child is behaving during this period largely depends on the age of the child (it is easier to adapt older than younger children), contact with many children and adults about the personality characteristics of the child, whether and how they prepared for departure in the manger and the regularity of coming to the hospital during the period of adjustment. Absences extend the time adjustment.

Fear of nursery

I alone can do much to ease a child prilagodbu.Od day decide that the child should start it at nursery to prepare. Explain that you are going to work, and what in the manger. Take him occasionally in a playroom, sometimes you leave with another person you trust to short and then a long time, thus creating a good base adaptation. The hardest thing is if the first separation from moms just starting nursery.

With adjustments to the nursery, and especially to sleep in children can be of great benefit to their stuffed animals. The nursery child knows the first few weeks all day wear and toys with them. This gives them a piece of home. For the same purpose can serve a special blanket or pad, teats or anything for the child's choice. In the first year of their child in the nursery must be prepared for common diseases, which is almost inevitable, as long as the child does not develop immunity.

How children behave during adaptation

Some children openly complain, loudly regular leave-in with my parents, crying, refusing to communicate.I do not accept and openly revolting against the new situation. It should be noted that the moment of parting moment of crisis and that most of the children after the parents reconciled and go play. Some of the children entering the first few days in a room with no resistance interested in new toys, to the resistance appeared on the third day, or next week, when they realize that going to kindergarten everyday and it still does not feel safe.

Reacts usually younger children. Older obediently enter the room, but it will be silent most of the day, standing by the door, refuse to communicate with his aunt and other children. Sometimes the child in the manger refused to eat, hard to sleep, restless sleep and otherwise whining for no apparent reason. Some children react regression in behavior. In order to be protected, the child selects those behaviors which offer him greater security. Such behavioral changes are transient. They will disappear when the child adjust to the new environment, ie. when she feels safe. After some time, when the child adjust to, and free of the fear of the unknown, nursery will become a place in which the child will be happy to come and where to spend time in the game with new friends.