Tuesday, April 24, 2012

How to find a good nanny?


Find the right nanny is not easy. Given that the choice of the right person depends on the quality of life of your child, it is understood that you have the right to be demanding and expect more.

The first characteristic that the child's babysitter has to have is to have confidence in it. Given that the choice of the right person depends on the quality of time your child means that you have the right to be demanding and expect more. What should I pay attention?

Education
Not the babysitter for your child to apply the educational principles of different people (for example, if you do not allow sweets before lunch, it must not make it either).

Encouragement
If something does not mean - to encourage the asking. In fact, it only meets your child and can not know if its characteristics do not inform. However, if you feel insecure, and wants you to leave a good impression, you will avoid asking questions. So you get the full initiative in informing the babysitter all relevant information for your child.

Also, remember that it does not have to mean what to you. Hence, it is your mutual communication is very important. For example, regardless of what you can do it superfluous, explain that your attitude about leaving the child unattended, and that relates to specific situations (such as when changing clothes, or in the car, in company with other young children - without the presence of adult or near an open window - that a child can not reach or do it dopuže). The guideline is one of the important little things such as: What is your child's favorite toy, in which preferred sleeping position, what should and what not to eat and drink, in which position the first calm down ... She must also know where the place of changing clothes, bottles, food, pacifier. Do not forget to tell her if your child has some special, specific needs or habits.

Gradualism
In any case, the babysitter to your family gradually insert. Be present while learning the basic "operation" such as dressing or feeding. Let her be more independent, stir in the council when it is needed.

The usual period of habituation of the child to a stranger, who will continue to worry about it, is two weeks. During all this time, parents are suggested to be present in order to separate it as painless as possible for all family members. Your calm attitude and a relationship of trust to it - will post and for your child to "absorb" your emotions.

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