Why our children are most concerned?

Make a man a child is the greatest challenge and responsibility of every parent. The toughest job in life is to raise a child properly. On the education of children affected by numerous factors parents, school, relatives, neighbors, friends, comrades, teachers. However, when something goes wrong then surely the duty are parents.

Children and adults have their own small and big hassle to bother them and they are exposed to daily stress. Below are some tips about how to midnight the child to cope with their problems

School

In our society, even small children to be overly concerned about success in school, sports and other activities. Help your child to find activities that are doing fine and enjoying and give him the support that effort, continue to exercise and celebrate small and large successes. As far as school, help children to organize daily tasks. On Sundays, they help to create a weekly schedule of commitments. Encourage them, even when the results are worse than expected. Help them to understand that there are problems that can be solved by persistent effort, learning and training. Collaborate with teachers and the school psychologist, develop confidence and self-esteem in a child, have a story of success and failure in school.

Boredom is ravaged children

Children crave stimulation, so that they can become restless if they have no obligations after school. This way I can acquire bad habits and make bad choices, such as eating junk food and too much time spent watching TV or playing video games. After-school programs and regular physical activity for a period of one hour each day can provide a healthy way of spending time in the afternoon. Additional activities, if well directed, increase the activity of the child in the "right direction", reduce boredom and improve sleep quality.

Children need to eat regularly

Skipping meals or snacks to replace it difficult for children to maintain a balanced energy throughout the day. In addition, hunger negatively affects children's ability to concentrate on a healthy diet and regular, which can cause problems with weight.

Follow the in-house rules: three meals and two snacks a day, which is feasible for most families. In addition, studies show that when children eat together with family members several times a week, you tend to be happier and healthier eating. Provide your child regularly breakfast, but it is not every day "fast food".Children need to have a hot cooked meal at least three or four times a week and keep fruits and vegetables on the table. Do not forget that obesity in children will provide a basis for obesity in adulthood and increased risk of cardiovascular complications.

Children are difficult to tolerate changes

Children under 6 years old still can not talk about stress, but become moody after the great change, when things look bad to them. Any change in routine, such as a new school, a new job or moving parents - can turn the world upside down, and this can affect the parents, brothers and sisters.

Observe a few daily rituals such as meals at a certain time, Afternoon walk or time to read the story. Kids who know what to expect, feel more relaxed, and will feel all around them. When you change your school or you move, pay more attention to children to help them overcome and submitted the "big" change.

Too much time in front of screens

TV or video games may act as a relaxation, but watch the screen does not act as a relaxing reading a book or talking to someone. In addition, time spent watching television often leads to excessive snacking and improper seating.

Limit the time spent in front of the screen to a maximum of two hours a day. I do not let you eat in front of the TV, because it distracts attention and awareness reduces the size of the portions, feeling of fullness and communication in the family. The screen can not replace the lack of parents, walking or sport. Spend time with your children.

Overly burdensome obligations

Teenagers may look happy and calm while chat with friends, listening to music, doing homework, snacks, eat snacks, or all at once. But multitasking is tiring and stressful than you think many parents and children.


Too much time spent indoors

Children, like adults, feel better when I can get out into nature. One study showed that patients in the hospital showed a faster recovery because they see trees from their windows.

Plan a family walk in the fresh air every day after school. Take children walk to school instead of drive, take a walk to the ice cream or cake shops to bars to "hot chocolate" or pastry. Go ice skating, game or amusement park with your child. 

Whether your child is doing enough?

Became enrooted opinion that whenever a child 's failure, the first in what is thought is that it is not doing enough

As soon as a child discounts at school or in another field does not achieve the results that are expected of him, almost as a rule by parents and teachers proclaimed lazy. Somehow it became enrooted opinion that whenever it comes about a child 's failure, the first in what his environment is thought that it may be successful, but not enough to achieve this. Parents find it is then logical that must implement a garden pressure (punishment, criticism, invective), so that the child is a "fix". Mađutim, should know that sanctions, in most cases, are not helping. 
To begin with, it should be understood that the laziness of thought that it is some kind of flaw or bad qualities to be eradicated, but in fact it is the result of some other difficulties that a child may have. Some of them are:  * The slow development pojediniih function or mindset in general. There are children who in their development show a certain "delay" to their peers. This does not mean that it is a mental retardation in the diagnostic sense, but the fact that there are kids who later begin to sit, walk or talk. However, when you win a developmental step are able to maintain a fairly stable. Such children school demands more or less frequently are "too much", they need help, and sometimes adaptation of their current capabilities. When they are to provide, working elan them back and disappears "laziness" that did not exist ...  * health problems. If you find that a child has an overall "lack of energy", not bad check its general condition zdravstvano, because when the body is not healthy it saves energy for vital processes, causing mental functions are being temporarily less usable. When zdravstvani fix the problem and mental functioning will improve.  * slow work. Nekimališani are simply means slow in carrying out their activities. If they urge, and Teramo to work at a faster pace, you will get the wrong crowd of tasks and their resistance to any kind of business. Leave such children to work at their pace, but help them to better organize and plan their obligations.  * of family disagreements. Even the smallest problems between parents and children can affect the quality of the child 's commitment to the school. A child who experiences it in house prices or less like punishing those who in a certain way and dismiss himself because he was not able to keep their love.Therefore, it appears revolt, according to school requirements and to those who have in the house. The solution lies in the reduction or elimination of family violence, and child will come back alive, and being able to quickly catch up on the material.  * Parental attitudes toward school. Sometimes children do not achieve success in school because they are not sufficiently gained confidence in the school and what it can provide to them in life. And this attitude is largely encouraged by careless statements of parents, such as: "What is worth schools when in the company of the price of some other things to do, powerful positions, jobs that make a quick buck ...". Listening to these comments, the child will easily give up the effort that needs to be invested in their school work because it has a picture that he does not need to know very well in life. If this happens, parents should make an effort to make it right and that their child starts to feels that they price school, but that does not put demands, or to obsess about his success. So, the next time you suspect that your child lazy, first consider the possible reasons for such behavior, and try to eliminate them, because all of your other attempts to "wise up" will be of little benefit. familiarity with MOTHER stronger than the superhero arrogance, laziness and aggressiveness of TV superheroes are definitely bad role model to children, because which are concerned parents and professionals. As an example, allegations of Batman in "The Dark Knight" Ajroni-Men and many others. American Psychological research indicates that today's action heroes masculinity expressed by other oppressive, exploiting women, boast a rich, aggressive behavior, superiority and sarcasm. So, they will send a message that they are all-powerful, but give them and other examples - Lencina who smokes, who does not care about hygiene, hates school ...Suggestible children look up to them. However, some manage to resist the stereotypical behavior, such as boys who while growing up, and later in life, had a close relationship with her ​​mother, friends and family.American developmental psychologist Carlos Santos says it's because they are emotionally accessible and easy odolevaju bad role models. Simultaneously, the boys who are close with his father follow a bad role models. Santos as a possible explanation for it is seen in the fact that fathers are perceived closeness with his son as the ability to highlight traditional and masculine roles. Psychologists advise that if you want kids to learn to recognize the stereotypical behaviors, it is best to give them an early age indicates poor role models and reminds them really tough people.

Development of children from 6 to 12

Children of preschool age are developing very quickly. Their motor, cognitive and social development astounds many parents. To make sure that the child is developing properly, and that one of them probably do not expect too much in school, look at this table of development and decide for yourself.

Coarse and fine motor skills 6-7 years  enjoying the many activities and more are dealt with  love to paint and draw  first losing teeth  Their vision was developed as in adults  , trains learned to be more successful skipped rope  know that riding a bike 8-9 years  Movements the graceful  jump, skip and trkaju the  clothes and footwear is put independently  know that the use of simple tools such as a hammer and screwdriver 10-12 years  love complicated and precise operations Cognitive Development  As they approach school age in their ability and understanding of the world around them are expanding. 6-7 years  understand the concept of  day and night is different  is different left and right side of the  can to copy or to copy complex shapes like say rhomboid  knows to say what time it is  known to describe objects and say what they do  that I can read books that are appropriate to their age 8-9 years  Number backwards  know dates  More reading and enjoying it  understand fractions  understand the concept of space  draw and paint  Knowing month, the days of the week in a row  that they enjoy collecting stickers, stamps, stickers ... 10 - 12 years  I can write a short story  read right  they enjoy to take their calls social-emotional development is  a very important part of growing up is the ability of the relationship and behavior towards others. During school time parents will see a social shift: a child that is mostly played only now has lots of company. While friendships become more important, the children still love their parents. 6-7 years  will cooperate to share  Varac if they get the chance  are jealous of the other, or brothers and sisters  love to imitate adults  like to play alone, but Friends are becoming increasingly important  Sometimes they happen outbursts of anger  they are shy when it comes to their body  they love games 8-9 years  love contests and games  starting to have mixed and friends to play with children of the opposite sex  they love to be part of the group - scouts, football players ...  They are interested in male-female relationship, but it does not want to admit 10-12 years  Friends are very important, maybe even have a best friend  is growing interest in the opposite sex  love and respect their parents  love to talk with others. 

The first school love

The first concrete sympathy occur usually in the fifth or sixth grade. Children are starting to fall in love and facing new types of relationships, and parents favor of their children toward the opposite sex begins to represent a major challenge. It is good if the child openly and honestly, so you know the latest news in your life because you will be easier to control future events.

 Specifically, monitoring a child first love parents will discover their level of confidence. So it's good to open your eyes and look what happens.
 For example, if your daughter says the boy called to the movies, it is best to consult with his parents and to agree on the time of sunrise and who will come after them. Children today are communicating via SMS and the Internet, because sometimes check these messages. If you seem to be, be sure to give a lecture on "appropriate and inappropriate communication", but so that they do not disclose how much you know about their correspondence.  Girls usually say more about first love, more open, and feelings toward the opposite sex're turning a few times during the day - from love life to its greatest enemy. The boys will not talk about their feelings towards the girls or even will not be aware of, and are particularly sensitive to teasing friends. So - keep their secret. 

Herpes simplex in a newborn

Herpes simplex in newborn always mean a serious viral infection that affects important organs (brain, liver, lungs) and often leaves permanent damage or fatal.

Herpes simplex virus infection of the 2500 - 5000 newborns in the United States. A child can become infected before or after birth. Mothers and babies are usually not aware that they carry the virus and have no symptoms at the time of delivery. Symptoms and Diagnosis The first symptoms usually occur between the first and second week, although they may miss up to four weeks after birth. The disease may start a rash, small fluid-filled blisters, however, 45% of infected newborns no skin rash. If they are treated within 7-10 days performing severe symptoms. There is a variable body temperature, lethargy and convulsions of the involvement of the brain, muscle laxity, difficulty breathing, inflammation of the liver (hepatitis) and blood clots in the blood vessels throughout the body. fluid-filled blisters are easily identified as a sign of herpes infection, while other symptoms are not so specific. Infection is usually proved by virus isolation from the content of bubbles, and the process takes 24-48 hours. Herpes simplex virus can also be detected in a sample of urine, secretions conjunctiva of the eye and nostril, in a sample of blood or cerebrospinal fluid. Prognosis and treatment if they are not treated, died about 85% of newborns with the disease extended to multiple organs. When confined to the skin, eyes and mouth, mortality is rare, but about 30% of these infants have some brain damage or nerve that can remain unnoticed until 2 or 3-ge-going age.treatment antiviral drug such as acyclovir reduces mortality by about 50% and significantly increases the number of children with herpes who will develop normally. Eye infections are usually treated with drops or ointment or grease trifluridina idoxuridin.

Jaundice in newborns

The term hyperbilirubinemia indicates abnormally high bilirubin levels. Old, damaged or abnormal red blood cells are removed from the circulation, mainly in the spleen. In this process of hemoglobin (the protein of red blood cells that carries oxygen) into a yellow pigment called bilirubin. Bilirubin circulation leads to the liver where it is chemically changed (conjugate) and so is excreted into the intestine as part of bile.

In most infants coming to the transient increase in bilirubin levels in the first few days of life, which makes the skin yellow (jaundice). In adults, the breakdown of bilirubin in the intestine performed bacteria normally found there. In newborns lack the bacteria and excreted in the faeces much bilirubin why she Light Yellow. Moreover, the newborn intestine is an enzyme that changes the bilirubin in this way to facilitate the re-absorption (reabsorption) in the blood and contributes to the development of jaundice.Increase in the level of bilirubin in the blood, jaundice becomes apparent, first on the face, then on his chest and then to his feet. Hyperbilirubinemia and visible jaundice usually disappear after the first week of life.Very high bilirubin levels are the result of increased production, scarce drainage or both. Sometimes, in healthy term infants in the natural diet (chest) during the first week, there's a growing appreciation of bilirubin in the blood, a condition known as jaundice lactation. The exact cause of this condition is not completely known. Lactation jaundice is usually harmless. If they become extremely high bilirubin can be applied to blue light. Hiperbihrubinemija usually of no consequence, but in some rare cases, very high values ​​of bilirubin can cause brain damage. The condition is known as kernikterus, and is most common in very immature and ill premature infants. treatment of hyperbilirubinemia mild hyperbilirubinemia should not be treated. Frequent feeding in newborn accelerates intestinal transit by reducing the reabsorption of bilirubin from the intestine and thus its level in the blood. At higher values ​​implemented phototherapy, in whom this procedure exposes the newborn blue light. Illumination child's skin occur due to chemical changes in molecules of bilirubin in the subcutaneous tissue. That changed bilirubin is excreted more easily without having to conjugate in the liver. If the bilirubin level is dangerously high blood newborn replaced by fresh (eksangvinotransfuzija which removes bilirubin). When jaundice lactation diet on breast rarely break at 1-2 days and only at extremely high bilirubin. Mother of the time regularly issues, so that the child can be put back on the chest, as bilirubin begin to fall. Returning to his chest poses no risk to the baby.

Learning problems in children

Learning disabilities are disorders acquisition, retention or use of the skills and information due to lack of attention, memory and judgment that undermines the success of education.

There are different types of learning difficulties, with different causes. It is believed that the basis of all disorders determined abnormality of brain function. It is estimated that 3% - 15% of children in the U.S. have learning difficulties and need to apply some form of special education. Boys 5 times more likely to have these problems than girls. Symptoms little child with learning disabilities often have difficulty with coordination of vision movements and awkward in physical activities such as cutting, coloring, buttoning, tying shoes and running. child may have a perception problem with vision or hearing, for example, identifying a particular pattern or distinguishing sounds or problems with memory, speech, thinking and listening. Some children have difficulty reading, some writing or numeracy. Most of the learning disorder is complex, with a reduced ability to higher levels. child can slowly remember the names of colors or letters, the names of familiar objects, may be poorly in learning counting, and have little ability to learn. Mastering reading and writing is slow. Other symptoms include short attention discontinuous speech and short-term memory. The child may have difficulty in drawing and tracing, activities that require fine motor coordination. Children with learning disabilities may have communication problems and impulse control, and difficulty in discipline. They easily distracted, can be hyperactive, withdrawn, shy or aggressive. Diagnosis and Treatment Doctor primarily examines a child in fact possible organic disorder. 

The child then solves a series of intelligence tests, including reading, writing and arithmetic. Psychological testing is the final step in the evaluation and diagnosis. treatment in applying some extent unproven effectiveness, eg elimination of additives in food, taking large doses of vitamins and level measurement of trace elements in children's serum. Neither drug showed no improvement in the level of education attained, the general level of intelligence and learning ability. However, some drugs, such as methylphenidate improve the level of attention and concentration, which improves learning ability. Most effective measure is to educate children adapted to their needs and requirements. 

Tips for your students

Start the school year is difficult for students and parents. Leaders are terrified of the unknown, not happy over the duties after the holidays, and all that affects moms and dads who are faced with both emotional and financial stress. For you have made ​​a list of eight best advice of experienced mom with increasing order to manage and survive September 1. 

Starting school will more easily overcome if the preparation time

As soon as you stepped into the second half of August for most children and parents nightmare begins. Children look for anything and everything for school, new pencil, screwdriver, erasers, rulers of the modern, expensive clothes .... complain of anything and everything, some even falling ill before departure. And when you start the school year starts and homework problems. Here's how to successfully overcome all these difficult situations.

BACKPACK

Buy the best model and may be more that can all fit nicely into it. Although it seems cruel when you see the champion with a bag to the knee, there's nothing worse than to buy a smaller model, and to him the way to school notebooks and pens falling out. Ask mom starijh students who are the most practical models, and you can povedet and its latest baby in the purchase. Note that the zipper is strong and made of metal. Among other supplies for the school do not spend too much money - these are things anyway for one season.

KNOWLEDGE IS THE FIRST CLASS

Most children can read, write, but also adds before starting school. Do not force, but work with your child as much as it is fun. It will all learn in school - and because moving first grade! In addition, when the child starts school you will have plenty of opportunity to learn from him. You do not have it before the official start.

SNACK

Prepared food for a great holiday Package in lunch box, preferably made of metal. If you are packing your food in the bag, chances are it will stay somewhere on the bench. The ideal is to work packing a sandwich, because the child does not have much time to eat while at school. So he better prepare a quality meal when you get home.

At 9 in BED

Even before a child starts school, "enter" into the school routine. Later, skip going out and sleeping until 10 am, watching TV and breakfast in pajamas. It is best to two weeks before departure you start to push the boundaries of sleep and getting up to first September everything was ready.

WARDROBE

Get a drying rack for a closet that can "agree" Clothing combinations. This will allow you to save the outfit for the child throughout the week without losing time in the morning when all the folks in the crowd. Also, most of the girls asks what carry the most popular in school, buy something that you can afford, but not fall into debt due to start school. Take advantage of summer sales, but you do not have to pokupujte all before September 1.

REQUIREMENTS

A quality backpack for books is something that is meant to buy regularly. But if your school boy "begging" and new jeans, tennis shoes from the last collection, jacket ... then be careful.

Explanation: Back to school is a lot of pressure, they want to fit in, to show something new, and it usually involves modern shoes.

- Children pretarno care and want to have control even when it comes to clothes, because the rest can not be affected - said Cathy Guttentag, an assistant professor at Children's Institute in Texas.

Tip: Talk with your child about his concerns. Find out what you really want, explain what you have for money, and agree how much pocket money will be reduced because of the extra purchase. As soon as you mention the allowance, the child will change their minds about things.

Kukanj

When a child begins to complain about anything and everything, heavy domestic, bad teachers, rough fellow, caustic comments from friends of the first bench .... let him just a few minutes.

Explanation: The child is socialized in a completely new environment, every year, so many things its hard to fall.Needs to exhaust the child, but do not overdo it.

Tip: When you start wailing immediately divert the conversation. Ask "How was the birthday party last night?", "How did you spent on training?" .... Talk about having fun, friends. The new theme will stop and turn unpleasant thoughts to something better.

DELAY

Children are incredibly talented and creative when it comes to making up excuses not to do homework on time. It is particularly difficult period in the first quarter.

Explanation: For the child who starts first grade in the new situation is stressful, confusing, it takes time to adapt and organize. For older students start the school year is the beginning of a new daily regime.

Tip: Insist on routine, daily tasks, the tasks used to divide into smaller units. Set limits and prohibitions if these rules are not respected. Agree and that is a place in your home part where the students work and learn.

The first day of school

Closer to the first day of school ... 

Every new experience has a different effect on your child, however, the first day of school is special. In the first few days your child will learn about new places, people, rules and relationships. It can be exciting, but scary.

The first day of school can mitigate this by your child's school to show before the school year, after which you talk with your child about everything seen. Inquire about the curriculum so that you can explain to your child what to expect at school. Talk positively about your school days and let your child know that you expect a nice period in which to meet a lot of friends with whom to learn the game interesting and useful things. It is important that you are optimistic and positive from the first moment when you start talking with your child about starting school.

Your positive attitude and cheerful, it will help the child to be less fearful, and that in the end and happy school days. Together go buy everything you need for school, let your child choose a backpack and everything else that he likes and will happily wait for the first day to try everything. In the morning before school, be calm and relaxed, do not make nervous. And have breakfast together with a previously prepared rukakom a visit to the school.

In the school yard will definitely wait and worry about other moms with children, so take the opportunity to familiarize yourself and your child to learn at least one other school, because he will enter the classroom in the society will be much easier. After the first day everything will be easier because it will help your child get used to the school environment and responsibilities.

At first, the only important your attitude, so if you're impatient for the start of happy school and your child will act like this.

Prepare your child for the first day of school

Two months before school begins with the preparations for her first graders first day of school, so that everything was as bright, without undue fear and tears ...

Starting in first grade is a big step for your child, but for you, so it is useful to begin with but now preparing to fall on the first day passed in a new environment with less stress and problems. A long hot summer is ahead of you and this is the perfect opportunity to explain to the child all the concerns you may have and answer all his questions.So, every day, take some time his pupil, and through play and conversation make all the preparations.

Answer all questions

It is a great possibility that the child will be fearful of the first day of school. It'll easily notice this by the mere mention of the school to become irritable, weepy, or will have a temper tantrum. This then is one more reason why you have to be made regarding the preparation. Do not begin to bombard the child with different information, but start with his own short stories as you were when you went to school. Speak only beautiful adventures and you have all experienced. Answer all the questions that the child will have, no matter how you made it meaningless. Child they are often crucial.

With a positive attitude, you will gradually build your child's confidence. No, do not exaggerate and lie about events at school. If the child went to kindergarten, accustomed to be separated from you, and separation at the school should not be a problem. However, if the child did not go to kindergarten, explain that you are going to accompany you to school and after school to wait, but to their peers and the teacher have to spend some time socializing and learning new things.

Socializing with peers

If you have older kids who go to school, the budding schoolboy from older brothers and sisters in the school. Of great help can be friends from the neighborhood, who know what kindergartens are expected in school and are more likely to look forward to the beginning of the school and will not understand the change so dramatically, nor will be stressed. But no matter how the child is accustomed to certain activities, it is useful to pick up the game his confidence.

Gather all of his peers who went or should go to school and play teacher and student. Let each child gets a chance to tell the story, or respond to the question. This will be a chance that the child acquires confidence in speaking before a group of children and adults. In addition, your child's good to be hanging out with peers, if they did not go to kindergarten to acquire certain social skills.

Find in a library or bookstore picture books or books that talk about reach first grade. Read a book with your child and discuss the topic. In first grade, children will have benches to sit and listen to what the teacher talk. If your child is fussy and try to reassure him get used to at least half an hour draw and color a picture book or to sit still while talking about his story. Children start to learn the letters in kindergarten, and some already know and read when they come into first grade. Do not worry if your child does not know letters, but try it through fun and games teach letters, or alphabet.

Turn it in preparation

Summer is the perfect time for walking, so why not make it to school if she is close enough. Walk once more with a child from home to school, to help put remembered. Explain how to cross the road, and to which all must be careful. Since the summer, so the school will probably be closed and you can teach them, but spend a few minutes before school in the game so that the child got used to the surroundings. Allow him to explore the surrounding area. Explain how each day to come here and learn new things and hang out and play with new friends. Tell him I will have to behave in school routine and you will have to adapt to.

When the time comes the first purchases of school books, bags of clothes and other things, include your child. Let you choose the bag that he would like, pens, pencil cases and such colorful book covers. With books such as coloring book, or buy an interesting book that will be used immediately, it will increase the joy and excitement about going to school.

Girls is especially important and the clothes you will wear to school, so they must take the purchase of new clothes. Whether it's just a new shirt, dress, pants or shoes will be excited, happy and impatient about new things.Both girls and boys like clothes with favorite characters from cartoons and animated films, so that will not go wrong.

Two weeks before school ...

If your child is not an early riser and likes to sleep longer, two weeks before school to start training to get up earlier. Wake him at the time when you will wake up while going to school, and save him a light breakfast.Immediately after breakfast we come up with some activities that you will work with the child, so to adjust to the earlier activities in the home or going out of the house. If the child did not go to kindergarten and is not used to be a long time without you, explain that you will accompany you to wait until the end of the school teaching, and that there is no need to be sad or to cry. If the tear occurs, do not be overly concerned. Remain calm and cheerful and do not show and that you hard.

The first day of school, bring him to school and wait for teacher instruction and the person who will be welcomed by first graders. When will be the time to say goodbye and leave the child in the classroom. Make sure your child on the first day of school is naspavan and rested and eat something before going to school. Get organized, save to go to school without the fuss and nervousness, and that everything goes serene and relaxed atmosphere. Promise him before parting it to the school from school to make ice cream or a favorite place or such that you spraviti his favorite dish at home. Thus the child is happy and the school and return home.

The first day of school

What do you think - how long should accompany children to school, when they should be allowed to go there yourself and get yourself back there?

A child crying the first day of school year

- Crying is an indication of school phobia and should be taken seriously. It mostly occurs in young children who are difficult to separate from parents and UNLACQUERED gain confidence in other people, usually in the firstand 2 grade. In such situations it is good to spend time parent with a child in the classroom or at the door. It is important that the child sees mom or dad talk to the teacher and other children and the only way to gain confidence in the new environment. The worst thing a child is crying due to leave at home.

2 The child is afraid of going to school

- As much as 30 percent at the beginning of school children showed aversive reactions. Children who are afraid of school often complain that they have a headache, feel bellyache, vomiting, their hearts pounding, sweat excessively, have trouble sleeping. Whether these reactions persist longer than a month, should seek medical attention.

3 How long should accompany the child to school

- There are no rules. Experts recommend that children be monitored until it feels safe to be alone go to school time, and it will only show when he no longer needs help. Seeking the help of a child for over a year, you should contact an expert.

4 When school children have to sleep

- Numerous studies have shown that many children come to school sleepy. School children need eight to 10 hours of sleep. This means that babies should not be allowed to go to sleep after 22 hours, a high school no later than midnight. It is very important for parents to control children in order to avoid the whole night spent watching television or dopisujući with friends.

5 What must be the TV or Playstation

- As little as possible. Experts recommend that the total time for playing games and watching television is a maximum of two hours a day. In addition, computer and television is certainly not set in their bedroom. It is important to control the content with which children come into contact via a TV or computer.

6 When you give him a cell phone and be with him in the school

- Mobile is best to buy it later, not before 5 grade. But if it has in the past, a child needs to learn that can not be 24 hours a day on the phone. Many schools have already banned the adoption of mobile phones to school.

7 A child can not sit 45 minutes

- Most children can not be. In general, the children every 15 minutes after changing position. According to CNES, which this year will be implemented in all primary schools, the task is to master during a lesson, change the six situations. A good teacher will not tolerate that the children walked with permission, go to the toilet, a restless child will engage to remove plaque, zašilje pen and the like.

8 Should children with learning and homework

- It does. The child should be shown how to learn, not learn it for him. The task of parents to control whether the child fulfilled all academic obligations. The child is happier if you just write the task, but if a parent does for him.The first time you write a task rather than a parent of the child, forever undermined his confidence.

9 The child is exposed to bullying

- Bullying is a serious problem. Even 27 percent of school children exposed to violence, while 16 percent of them make up their own violence. More difficult to detect female bullying because girls mature earlier and practice specific forms of violence. They usually isolated and the other girls gossiping or using tricks, while in boys is mainly about the physical life balance.

10 How to dress for school

- Most importantly, the children comfortable in your clothes. The school should not be a fashion runway, but teachers should not panic if you raise the girls came to school našminkanih lips and nails. Experts warn about how to dress for the school to talk with children from first grades to avoid that children have of the brand shoes, pants, or be subjected to violence cell phone, which is unfortunately common in schools.

11 How often should I go for information

- If you need every day, and at least once every two weeks. As soon as you notice that the child feels unsafe and that there is a problem with the school should discuss this with the child is his tutor.

12 The child avoids school

- Marking one of the major problems in school. Experts are divided over whether to justify the hours the child, as a sign of trust, or not, because it was a message that such behavior is wrong. It is important that parents be aware of the mark and the child to speak with him about why he did it.

13 wants to go out at night, how many hours

- It is individual. Best be guided by the fact that most children are not in his class. We should not succumb to the child's statements like "Everyone laughs, but I do not." It is also important for parents to personally know the children with whom their children come out, and it is well known and their parents.

14 The child received the first unit

- It should be understood as an event that will make your child more mature. Around this we must not panic, much less to punish the child because it may be a consequence of the fear of school.

15 The type of activities as a child

- Children may not be loaded with too many activities. The best recipe is the one child - a leisure activity.

What every father needs to know?

This is every father needs to know

Men's magazine "Men helt" published a few tips for fathers, which he claims are very useful in raising children.

Words are very valuable

Speak - you listen to your child. According to a study published in the Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology in a family where both parents work, fathers had greater impact than mothers on the child's language development by age three. Create a creative atmosphere and an environment in which to carry the game through various activities. In a speech to use long words, even if your child does not understand, because children learn many things out of context.

Do not reward anger

"When you're visibly nervous, just add fuel to the fire," says Hal Edward Ranke, a family therapist. And if you simply give the child candy, only encourage bad behavior. When your child starts to cry, try to remain calm and give him attention. Do not ignore it. This will be a sign that you will not disturb its behavior and that the child will not win - ever. Perhaps the first attack of anger will not be effective, but in the fifth act of magic.

Competition raises confidence

Children 4 years old are beginning to compete with their parents, as seen in the car racing or wrestling on the bed.Loosen. Let them win some time, but slowly pull up the criteria to be harder to win. "In this way children develop a sense of strength and muscle testing," said Dr. Justin Richardson, who teaches psychiatry at Columbia University.Being confident is not a target for bullies.

Giving up is hard

When his son wanted to leave basketball to 8 years, Rankel he said, "Sure, but you will communicate it to the coach and teammates." The boy could not have done that and played basketball for the next 7 years. Allow your child to feel the pain of giving up and then that decision will not be easy to make, advised Rankel. "If your child tells you he is hard at school and did not want to teach, tell him it was fine," said Rankel. "But he must emphasize that tells teachers how to teach and not to give any assessment. Believe me, I will not do it. "

Feelings of others are important

It is easier to connect with others if you understand their perspective on things, so cultivate the instinct of a child.Start with his feelings. Rankel suggest that you ask your child how he feels with 8 years, and then you show the people the child knows the difficult, for example. that the father of a second lost his job. Ask him what he thinks is his second. "There will always know the answers, but will at least think about it," said Rankel.

Arguments will be resolved by themselves

Unless a child is seriously threatening the other during an argument, do not confuse it. "As soon as you say even one word, they are no longer interested in the solution. Just try it you will consent to choose the side, "says child psychiatrist Dr. Anthony Wolf. If you are bored, say that your solution will be bad for both. They will learn that begging does not work. More importantly, they will learn to quickly resolve the conflict.

Independence is gained

When your child asks to stay longer in the second, ask him what time it intends to return. And then ask why. If your answer does not satisfy you, deny it. If the response is good, let him, said Dr. Janet Edget psychology from Pennsylvania. Studies have shown that children quickly develop strong moral principles, if their parents are given the freedom and responsibility.

For the success of your focus

Maybe you do not want a child prodigy, but a competitive society in which we live imposes different rules. Because more and more children have a problem with focus, says MD C. Andrew Ramsey, a professor of psychiatry at Columbia University. Let your child know your expectations. Celebrate improvement and explain the benefits of child coping skills.

"Regardless of whether your child likes Tom Brady or Bejonse, may learn that these people have succeeded because they mastered a skill," said Dr. Ramsey. "Teach them that if they pass through a door - will open many more, but if you try to go through the five-door at the same time - will get nowhere."

Check what your child watches on TV

Television programs are generally not suited to children because it is important that the program intended for people over 18 years of broadcast only after midnight, while others indicate the number of care facilities, in order to know the age of the audience to which they are intended, it was said the discussion "Media Laws and Protection of Children and minors. "

"The regulatory body is required to classify each program separately, but the broadcasters to work independently and there is a problem, because the contents of the scenes of violence, obscenities, hate speech, marked number 16 would not be aired after midnight," said a member of the Republican RBA Goran Pekovic.

A particular problem, he said, are reality programs that were aired once during the day, at prime time, and which could be seen swearing and inappropriate behavior.

RRA is therefore reminded Pekovic, in April this year decided that the content broadcast just after midnight, and that reality programs do not play in real time, or to be issued only when the pass editorial "control."

According to him, in the upbringing of children, and what to see, have the responsibility of parents, schools and media, and the fact that the youngest are available to more platforms through which to transmit media content, so it is difficult to control.

"Television driven by the desire for better ratings, resort to sensationalism and reality programs," said Pekovic, adding that all broadcasters use public resources (frequency), which must have some degree of social responsibility.

Speaking of the children's program, he noted that the Broadcasting Act did not govern how broadcasters should have such content in the program schedules, which are programs for children on television and represented "per thousand".

Vice President of NUNS Dragan Janjic said that the rules of presentation of the youngest in the media generally respected, but that the models and models that the media offer poor children, because "the way people are presented with show business and their private life, signals that the kids should to behave. "

Janjic stressed the need of primary and secondary schools to introduce the subject of "Media Literacy", while the assistant chief editor of "Studio B" Daniel Alam said that "television content disastrous impact on the development of children."

To parents with this problem alone can not cope, says director and chief editor of "SOS channel" Dragisa Kovacevic who said that the RBA should adopt rules that all broadcasters would have to comply with and be "the supreme judge who speaks in the During the program can be aired. "

The children spend the most time watching TV

Parents should exert selection emissions and limit kids time watching cartoons and TV programs.

Cartoons have a major impact on the behavior of children and therefore requires the control of children, experts say, while the Republican Broadcasting Agency (RRA) state that there is no special regulation for this kind of movies.

"The average child spends more time watching television than in school or listening to advice parents learn about the world watching the electronic 'image'," said psychologist Tanjug Aleksandra Jovanovic Hungary.

According to her, with this in mind, it is necessary to exercise control of children's programs.

She said that the cartoons are broadcast on local TV channels mainly cultivate positive values ​​and warned of danger from igranioca and actions in which the sale of video games, aggressive content.

"Violence is the basic concept of these games, according to the real world," said Jovanovic Hungary.

She added that studies show that the aggressive content of the program immediately transferred into the daily life of children, increasing their impulse to violence.

According to her, hence the dual responsibility of parents - to carry out the selection of programs and limit the time watching cartoons and TV programs.

RRA spokesman Srboljub Bogdanovic told Tanjug that there is no specific regulation for the cartoons, that they are subject to the rules under which subject the rest of the program.

He said that the RBA has no specific view on the cartoons.

"Cartoons are part of the program and as such are treated, therefore, broadcasters are free to play in the period in which alone are fit," said Bogdanovic recalled that censorship is prohibited and that does not exist.

He noted that there are no special rules for the cartoons, which would not be valid for all other films.

"If a problem occurs the content of cartoons and cartoon is not suitable for children, to the Broadcasting Agency Council resulted in the situation that exists when it appears that the content in a film that is not appropriate for children," said Bogdanovic.

He stated that citizens can contact the RBA applications if they wish to point out that the program being broadcast is not suitable for children.

"Each application will be considered and for her procedure will be executed in accordance with the procedure, which means that if it is established that the broadcaster made a misdemeanor, he can be warned and he may be sentenced to undergo" Bogdanovic said.

Impact of TV on your child

Television has long been known as a mandatory "resident" of each household. Everyday life is unthinkable without the TV content, and some even go so far as to subordinate your schedule to that television. Odaslih addition, television is an integral part of the child's life. Once the children are growing up with children's educational programs and entertaining cartoons, like "Branka Checkers", "Open Window", "Kalimera" and similar, but today the situation is quite different.

Following the example of adults, children spend more time watching television. There may be even less instructive to see the content, but we can see movies, TV shows, commercials, music videos, mostly all the material intended for everyone except children.

Violent, sexual and marketing facilities have the greatest impact. Advertisements are often an integral part of children's programs, so you should not be surprised what your child is humming along with advertisements for soft drinks, snacks, milk, etc.., Because the advertisements of this kind usually released in between cartoons.Marketing agencies are well aware of what they do because children are most vulnerable consumers. Be sure it is not a coincidence that your child in a supermarket wants to buy "right there" chocolate, and not another.

When it comes to violent and sexual content, the result will be similar. How to imitate adults, children in the same way and mimic what they see on television. Social psychologist Albert Bandura's back in 1967th The research conducted in which preschool children with no behavioral problems, was exposed to a one-time viewing a completely unknown woman to fight in different ways so. Bobo doll. Once you have watched, the children were left in the same room with the same props and the Bobo doll, they behaved exactly like a woman - she was beaten and punched and kicked, beaten with a hammer on the head, throwing, etc.. The results showed the incredible power of modeling, that children will be aggressive as well as the model in a similar situation. The survey was repeated through the years and the results were always the same. If the child is strongly influenced by unknown model, it is difficult not to wonder what impact you have parents, brothers and sisters, and eventually television content that the child sees every day. Watching content dominated by aggressive behavior robs the child's sense of community, the children lose confidence, have more fear, and all this is reflected in the future. In addition, preschool children are not able to distinguish fiction from reality, which appear fears, nightmares, anxiety, bedtime, and similar difficulties. However, not all that bad even when the influence of television on children on Wednesday. Certain television facilities have a positive impact because through them children can affirm their experience, expand vocabulary, encourage the development of solidarity and friendship, and contribute to the awakening of interest in learning and encourage the development of imagination. Children through television enrich knowledge and encourage the adoption of new concepts.

However, as a parent to choose content appropriate age of your child, you can monitor what your child watches on television. Talk with your child about what they see and help him to better distinguish the real from the imagined content. Do not let your child unnecessarily leave hours in front of the TV screen when you have time to go together in the park, walking, visiting his friends alike.

The dangers of excessive television viewing

Serious consequences of television viewing 

Excessive television viewing may lead to specific impairments in children, according to a study group of scientists from the University of Montreal.

The longer television viewing in children with the start at an early age leads to, as research has shown, higher risk of developing disabilities, such as the decline of interest in class, mediocre results in mathematics and rejection by other children.

The scientists concluded that every hour in front of TV over the average seven percent decrease for engaging the child in class.

The researchers concluded that excessive television viewing in children between two and four years later, reduces success in mathematics, but not in reading, while the danger of being rejected by peers in the class increases by ten percent.

Physical activity on weekends, as scientists have found, in these people reduced by 13 percent, and overall physical activity for nine percent.

Consumption of sweetened soft drinks increased by nine, and ten percent for snack foods, which leads to increased body mass index by five percent in the tenth year of life.

Scientists have come to this conclusion after eight years of follow-up 1314 children whose parents are informed how much time they spend watching television, while the teachers evaluated their academic and psychosocial skills, and health.