Became enrooted opinion that whenever a child 's failure, the first in what is thought is that it is not doing enough
As soon as a child discounts at school or in another field does not achieve the results that are expected of him, almost as a rule by parents and teachers proclaimed lazy. Somehow it became enrooted opinion that whenever it comes about a child 's failure, the first in what his environment is thought that it may be successful, but not enough to achieve this. Parents find it is then logical that must implement a garden pressure (punishment, criticism, invective), so that the child is a "fix". Mađutim, should know that sanctions, in most cases, are not helping.
To begin with, it should be understood that the laziness of thought that it is some kind of flaw or bad qualities to be eradicated, but in fact it is the result of some other difficulties that a child may have. Some of them are: * The slow development pojediniih function or mindset in general. There are children who in their development show a certain "delay" to their peers. This does not mean that it is a mental retardation in the diagnostic sense, but the fact that there are kids who later begin to sit, walk or talk. However, when you win a developmental step are able to maintain a fairly stable. Such children school demands more or less frequently are "too much", they need help, and sometimes adaptation of their current capabilities. When they are to provide, working elan them back and disappears "laziness" that did not exist ... * health problems. If you find that a child has an overall "lack of energy", not bad check its general condition zdravstvano, because when the body is not healthy it saves energy for vital processes, causing mental functions are being temporarily less usable. When zdravstvani fix the problem and mental functioning will improve. * slow work. Nekimališani are simply means slow in carrying out their activities. If they urge, and Teramo to work at a faster pace, you will get the wrong crowd of tasks and their resistance to any kind of business. Leave such children to work at their pace, but help them to better organize and plan their obligations. * of family disagreements. Even the smallest problems between parents and children can affect the quality of the child 's commitment to the school. A child who experiences it in house prices or less like punishing those who in a certain way and dismiss himself because he was not able to keep their love.Therefore, it appears revolt, according to school requirements and to those who have in the house. The solution lies in the reduction or elimination of family violence, and child will come back alive, and being able to quickly catch up on the material. * Parental attitudes toward school. Sometimes children do not achieve success in school because they are not sufficiently gained confidence in the school and what it can provide to them in life. And this attitude is largely encouraged by careless statements of parents, such as: "What is worth schools when in the company of the price of some other things to do, powerful positions, jobs that make a quick buck ...". Listening to these comments, the child will easily give up the effort that needs to be invested in their school work because it has a picture that he does not need to know very well in life. If this happens, parents should make an effort to make it right and that their child starts to feels that they price school, but that does not put demands, or to obsess about his success. So, the next time you suspect that your child lazy, first consider the possible reasons for such behavior, and try to eliminate them, because all of your other attempts to "wise up" will be of little benefit. familiarity with MOTHER stronger than the superhero arrogance, laziness and aggressiveness of TV superheroes are definitely bad role model to children, because which are concerned parents and professionals. As an example, allegations of Batman in "The Dark Knight" Ajroni-Men and many others. American Psychological research indicates that today's action heroes masculinity expressed by other oppressive, exploiting women, boast a rich, aggressive behavior, superiority and sarcasm. So, they will send a message that they are all-powerful, but give them and other examples - Lencina who smokes, who does not care about hygiene, hates school ...Suggestible children look up to them. However, some manage to resist the stereotypical behavior, such as boys who while growing up, and later in life, had a close relationship with her mother, friends and family.American developmental psychologist Carlos Santos says it's because they are emotionally accessible and easy odolevaju bad role models. Simultaneously, the boys who are close with his father follow a bad role models. Santos as a possible explanation for it is seen in the fact that fathers are perceived closeness with his son as the ability to highlight traditional and masculine roles. Psychologists advise that if you want kids to learn to recognize the stereotypical behaviors, it is best to give them an early age indicates poor role models and reminds them really tough people.
As soon as a child discounts at school or in another field does not achieve the results that are expected of him, almost as a rule by parents and teachers proclaimed lazy. Somehow it became enrooted opinion that whenever it comes about a child 's failure, the first in what his environment is thought that it may be successful, but not enough to achieve this. Parents find it is then logical that must implement a garden pressure (punishment, criticism, invective), so that the child is a "fix". Mađutim, should know that sanctions, in most cases, are not helping.
To begin with, it should be understood that the laziness of thought that it is some kind of flaw or bad qualities to be eradicated, but in fact it is the result of some other difficulties that a child may have. Some of them are: * The slow development pojediniih function or mindset in general. There are children who in their development show a certain "delay" to their peers. This does not mean that it is a mental retardation in the diagnostic sense, but the fact that there are kids who later begin to sit, walk or talk. However, when you win a developmental step are able to maintain a fairly stable. Such children school demands more or less frequently are "too much", they need help, and sometimes adaptation of their current capabilities. When they are to provide, working elan them back and disappears "laziness" that did not exist ... * health problems. If you find that a child has an overall "lack of energy", not bad check its general condition zdravstvano, because when the body is not healthy it saves energy for vital processes, causing mental functions are being temporarily less usable. When zdravstvani fix the problem and mental functioning will improve. * slow work. Nekimališani are simply means slow in carrying out their activities. If they urge, and Teramo to work at a faster pace, you will get the wrong crowd of tasks and their resistance to any kind of business. Leave such children to work at their pace, but help them to better organize and plan their obligations. * of family disagreements. Even the smallest problems between parents and children can affect the quality of the child 's commitment to the school. A child who experiences it in house prices or less like punishing those who in a certain way and dismiss himself because he was not able to keep their love.Therefore, it appears revolt, according to school requirements and to those who have in the house. The solution lies in the reduction or elimination of family violence, and child will come back alive, and being able to quickly catch up on the material. * Parental attitudes toward school. Sometimes children do not achieve success in school because they are not sufficiently gained confidence in the school and what it can provide to them in life. And this attitude is largely encouraged by careless statements of parents, such as: "What is worth schools when in the company of the price of some other things to do, powerful positions, jobs that make a quick buck ...". Listening to these comments, the child will easily give up the effort that needs to be invested in their school work because it has a picture that he does not need to know very well in life. If this happens, parents should make an effort to make it right and that their child starts to feels that they price school, but that does not put demands, or to obsess about his success. So, the next time you suspect that your child lazy, first consider the possible reasons for such behavior, and try to eliminate them, because all of your other attempts to "wise up" will be of little benefit. familiarity with MOTHER stronger than the superhero arrogance, laziness and aggressiveness of TV superheroes are definitely bad role model to children, because which are concerned parents and professionals. As an example, allegations of Batman in "The Dark Knight" Ajroni-Men and many others. American Psychological research indicates that today's action heroes masculinity expressed by other oppressive, exploiting women, boast a rich, aggressive behavior, superiority and sarcasm. So, they will send a message that they are all-powerful, but give them and other examples - Lencina who smokes, who does not care about hygiene, hates school ...Suggestible children look up to them. However, some manage to resist the stereotypical behavior, such as boys who while growing up, and later in life, had a close relationship with her mother, friends and family.American developmental psychologist Carlos Santos says it's because they are emotionally accessible and easy odolevaju bad role models. Simultaneously, the boys who are close with his father follow a bad role models. Santos as a possible explanation for it is seen in the fact that fathers are perceived closeness with his son as the ability to highlight traditional and masculine roles. Psychologists advise that if you want kids to learn to recognize the stereotypical behaviors, it is best to give them an early age indicates poor role models and reminds them really tough people.
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