Modern parenting

Grandmothers, blankets, uncles, aunts and other family members are not adequate replacement in parenting because they are too lenient. The maturation of children and shaping the character that will reflect their personality in adulthood, parents play a crucial role. For good physical and mental development of the child are important both parents emphasize childrens psychiatrists. In this relationship, the mother, especially, should give tenderness, support and understanding, which will be of great importance in adulthood when they establish different relationships with others, especially the partnership.

The father, on the other hand, is a model of perceiving reality. Of course, these divisions are not strict, but families today are often not able to respond to these demands, because either not complete, or has a difficult economic situation, which is focused on earning a living. In fact, more and more single mothers and fathers on the edge of existence.
traditional families practically disappear, and bring forth some new forms of family behavior. In such a milieu of family children are, unfortunately, more and more faced with volatile and unpredictable circumstances in which parents can not give them everything they need. Not only economically, but also psychologically, it carries far-reaching consequences that brings a lack of love, attention, understanding, patience, honesty, consistency.
circumstances was very busy in the parent members would grandmothers, blankets, uncles, uncles, aunts ...However, experts warn that they are not adequate substitutes for parental leave. Trying to make up for what their children are missing, often exaggerate the leniency. A satisfying their every whim can lead to serious problems. With the indulgence children begin to exhibit unrealistic needs and requirements, as well as the belief that every problem can be solved with the help of the other and with full support.
Given that such behavior is not possible in later adulthood, parents and all those who care about the child should educate ga to know why they were rewarded, which is why he is disadvantaged. Under the awards in any case does not mean the money, nor the punishment beatings. A parent who is mature, responsible, one person was relatively pleased with the personal, professional and intimate relationships, it can create a good milieu for growing children. Success is a parent who is not perfect, but has the ability to recognize mistakes, trying to think about them, aware of the time in which he lives, constraints and opportunities. Such a person needs solving in order of urgency and importance, not forgetting what is for their child at any given time most. A good parent is one who respects the personality of the child, who is aware of his strengths and weaknesses, who knows how to ga Encourage and praise whenever there is a reason for it. Think, too, and the ways in which the child indicates an error. It is also important to distinguish which of the activities of the child is necessary and appropriate to his age, which represent their unfulfilled ambitions, experts say the parents. Dedicated VIOLENCE Children from families who maintain at least part of the customs, family rituals and festivities as adults have a stronger sense of belonging to their own family. Being devoted as parents and members of the business team better. 's why, instead of verbal advice in certain situations, and verify that the message point by its example. Also, do not Solve problems of their child, but to streamline ga just find the solution. Help your child to stature in a responsible, mature, secure, independent and a content person. MANE MODERN PARENTING The original human community have raised more children than they are today, in the 21st century, says prof. Dr. Narvaez Darsija from the American University of Notre Dame in Indiana. Modern methods of parenting that involve leaving babies to cry, holding long staff and sedeljkama in the car, and less opportunity for children to walk freely and reside outside of the home, creating a new generation of dysfunctional. "warm and always available to soothe worries childrens brain, which is necessary for the formation of personality and exploring the world. Our research shows that the foundation had formed early in childhood, but modern parenting increasingly denies the fundamentals that lead to feel satisfaction and creating a true moral code, "says Dr. Narvaez. Studies show that children who spend time in isolation and out of games, have more opportunities to develop hyperactivity and other health disorders. To the fore particularly mental instability, egocentrism, insensitiveness.