Children need love

Although you mean that their children love most in the world, they do not have to be any obvious or clear. She assumed, presumed, are hoping that this is so, but their understanding of the world and the values ​​that have yet to adopt are different than you, as an adult.

 One definition of parenting is to enable children roots and wings. Koren is a metaphor for feeling stronghold, the place where the child is always returned because feels welcome just the way it is, while the wings are a symbol of parental inevitability that your child is released to the outside world (outside the family environment) freely and independently investigated, make their own decisions, wins and loses ... ie: flying. However, your child may not have their footing and root in your home if it is not safe in your love. Absorbent experience their environment their world full of colors, images and associations builds gradually, but it is necessary to have a clear confirmation of what we think or assume . How? Think for a moment, on what basis would your child may know that you love? Have you told him or showed a sufficiently direct, open, unambiguous manner? Specifically, when the child 's drawing praise or say, "You're a good mom boy" or "I'm so proud of you as you are ..." encourage you positive, supportive message and expressed their satisfaction with some of his behavior. However, in this way did not say that you love him. It is necessary to show your love to be directly, openly, clearly. Say, "I do an awful lot like" or "I love you the most in the world" (or think of your personal, social comparison), because its only in this way say something that leaves no doubt or questioning what you mean when you say it. Nonverbal means showing love hugs, kisses, "push" while reading a story or play, seek opportunities to be together anymore ... In addition, we now know that an open display of love affects not only the children 'self-confidence and the positive development of family values, but also on degree of intelligence. Specifically, in families with multiple children, are often the most successful and have a higher intelligence quotient precisely, first-born children. This, however, does not mean that parents prefer their firstborn. On the contrary, they all love their child but equally it shows differently, manifested. That is, after the firstborn, like parental attention, expectations and ambitions drops. learning. On the other hand, showing love is something that many parents have yet to learn. It is often the case that they themselves grew up without this form of parental support. "Heavy" to display their own emotions are especially dads, because in their childhood were victims of prejudice to the famous "boys never cry," that tears are only for the weak ... That is, they used to hide their emotions and repressed. It is therefore important that for the first few days of your children begin learning shows and open expression of love that you feel. You will need time to master this skill, because you might have several decades of experience in suppressing even positive personal feelings.Prejudice. Do not hold back in speaking or showing nicest possible feelings. You can not preterati. View that excessive love of children can spoil is prejudice that needs to forget as soon as possible. Show the child that he is loved not the same as spoiling it. It is understood that the spoiled children also loved children, but she did not become such as have been sure to love their mom and dad, but as a result of certain parental attitude is exemplary current pediatric population. Rather than see their child in its current stage of development retain behavior as though it were younger than he. They have no limits permitted and illicit behavior, their authority is very weak, and their children, allowing almost everything, without a clear idea of what their child at that age should know. nutshell, love can not be too, too, can not be exaggerated. On the contrary, najznačajnjije what he can provide is the belief that you love most in the world. Only then will it be able to grow confident in yourself and your family. Unreserved feeling of parental love makes children confident. Thanks to this, the easier it concluded friendships, optimistic, freer, more open, curious.Challenge themselves because they know they have a "place to return" if erroneous. Finally, this feeling of roots is essential for a successful flight, when it comes time to root unless your child and let the wings. wrote the lyrics