Thursday, April 4, 2013

Fear of doctors in children


For children there is an innate fear of doctors. If this fear appears, then contributed to it or the parents, or the unpleasant physical examinations and interventions, which have deterred them. If the parents are afraid of doctors and child overweight it to him, then it will, but scared, get the doctor cried: "Is he not going to give me a shot? I'm good. " If a baby is receiving an injection, it will get burdened with another kind of fear - the fear of pain.



 If a child is well prepared, even unencumbered by fear of punishment or fear of pain, the doctor comes, it may even be nice to have fun all the strange things that a doctor has, and which serves, especially if he let his subjects and take in hand, visit them and become familiar with them.
 Sometimes, however, these same objects and that can scare a child, and in this case the parents and doctors depend on what will happen next. In this situation, they need to understand what a child feels at that moment and to show understanding for this situation and feeling that his lot with patience facilitate review.
 "You're afraid that you will ache, let's guess: if it hurts, and you immediately say I'll stop (the stethoscope on the chest) or "Come on Feel the first look and this rubber hose, and I will then examine a view after you mom", or "I know you are ashamed to take off, I am going to close my eyes, and you tell when I open my eyes ";" You will daddy to hold in your lap, and you keep your honey. " Toys in medical room (and they should be in every room doctors who work with children) will help in the liberation of fear, because they will always find some that will appeal to pediatric care. 's normal to cry when it hurts  Many children, although well prepared , they cry when they get shot, and that's a normal reaction to pain. Child will be easier and will quickly console if his parents simply show that they know that it hurts him, and that it must be because you otplače.  If a child (grown up) boldly submit an injection after the expected pain and he is not too strong, then it will ga be happy if parents praise what is so brave. That child will create a kind of self-confidence and help him to continue easily submit discomfort and pain.  In both cases the child is the most important thing to know that his parents did not agree (they said it will hurt), nor cheat you understood it if he cried. In this way, his faith in the parents will bti shaken. promise not rewards, not to interfere Love Many parents resort to various promises that persuaded the child to take medication. Usually his promise favorite toys, sweets or fun. What really achieves these procedures? In this way, not only can the children do not necessarily develop the feeling that many things in life must accept though unpleasant, but rather developing - the utmost harm to the child - the feeling that for all the inconvenience you stranded lodged, will be richly rewarded . Thus the child easily makes us prone to blackmail, which later spread to many other situations. Then the parents should not be surprised if one day you hear of a child: "I will write an assignment if we buy automobilčić", "I will take the garbage bag if you gave me money for the cinema", "Spremić your room if you buy me a red turtleneck," etc.  There are parents who are inclined to intervene love and feelings to children persuaded me to do something that is not pleasant. "If you love mom, popićeš cure" or "If you do not drink medicine, I love you more." What is achieved by this kind of threat? The child is born the fear of losing my mom's or dad's love for his own fault. Such a fear, the most terrible for the child, creates a feeling of uncertainty and can lead to various disorders, on an emotional level.

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