Stop learning with children

There are two types of parents who simply adapt to their character that children do not work alone. And that's not good because kids homework not only solve the problem of living - ponavaljajući lessons and practicing tasks children become ready for school. Thus, a child psychologist acic Gordana explains that there are two types of parents, and you check which group you belong to and you're wrong.

A concerned parent

Parents who care about children and examines the execution of school obligations, expecting the worst if the tasks are not done, and the material learned. When you see that time is short, takes matters into his own hands and does everything for the child - says local (child rewrite it), the line drawings for which it is impossible that the work of children's hands, according to an abbreviated version of a larger text - to simplify it and to child understands what this is all about, so you quickly learn together ...

The message that it sent a parent child is: you are not able - I have for you, or you'll fall class. When a child is repeatedly heard, or felt, begins to behave accordingly. Unfortunately, this is the beginning of a relationship to the school, and later to other life situations.

Relaxed Parent

A parent who is aware of the capacity and capabilities of their child and consequently helps the child when there are difficulties. Such a parent does not assume responsibilities that child, suitable to their age, can only assume, although it is sometimes frustrating effort and a child.

If that fails, the message that this sends the parent relates to a child's confidence in his abilities - I know you can do it and I do not mean to diminish your ability. A child in this situation, after much effort, there is always the result - whether it is a complete success, and that causes delight children and parents, or failure.With the failure will be used primarily parental support - in terms of the incentives and help with analyzing what led to it and how it can be resolved.

Do you teach children? Do you spend hours and hours explaining to them the material and do their tasks. And then you get angry at them ... Well, maybe not their fault? Maybe you're wrong.