Friday, December 21, 2012

How to prevent discord among brothers?


Of course we all want our children to be friends, not competitors. But how to achieve it? Well here's a tip ...


The difference in years-means that the siblings will be in different stages of learning. Enter the activity in which all ages can participate. Encourage older children to help younger ones, so they will feel more important.

Do not rush-interrupt children's quarrels. Solving little friction can be a valuable lesson to them. Do not stop or take sides in order not to think that you have a favorite.

Praise them when they get along well. Notice that only when we misbehave, we might think that this is the way to win your attention.

Teach them how to work together, to alternately play a particular toy.

Tell children to talk openly about the issues. Make sure that they know how to ask an adult to help them in resolving the dispute.

Encourage them to think of others. Ask them how they would feel their brothers and sisters and we would like to have in their place.

Stay calm. You give them know that the problem is not so great, it will help them to listen to you in the future.

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