Monday, May 28, 2012

What if your child starts to curse?

You'll be quite surprised when one day your well-behaved child utters the first bad word. Cursing was heard somewhere in the street, and was accepted as a way of speaking adults. And while a lot of confidence carries you (lest I learned a new term from the adult world), you simply dumbfounded. I do not know what to do?

First, do not go beyond that and to pretend that you have not heard anything. "Bad language" is often used in order to draw attention to themselves, or as an attempt to test your reaction. Do not react to the children's laughter, cursing, so no matter how you look.

Ask your child if he knew what the word means, most do not know. On his way to understand and explain the meaning of the word consult him: such words are not welcome in your home.

Some parents still practice the old fashioned way of "healing" from "dirty" language - and a quick pat on the child's lips. If you are a supporter of this method, then to run with a hug and a kiss.

Introduce fines, according to the system "one bad word one dinar." This is possible only in a slightly later age when the child already has its own pocket.

You can let them free to use words that only the elect, but he is suggested to be pronounced in a place that is appropriate to do so - in the bathroom. You'll see how quickly give up their original intentions. It's not so fun "shock" himself, in such a dull place.

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