Monday, May 28, 2012

What if a child does not stop cursing?

There is hardly a child at least at some point is not cursed, but some children do much more than others.Children, sometimes, know to be very persistent with curses, the crazy parents who could not manage to unlearn old child, and nasty habits.

Children from two, three, four, when they curse, in principle, to make no real understanding of what it is saying, but they like the reaction of adults to hear - they are sometimes allowed, sometimes angry, but rarely seriously angry , the principle of "know what this little child what is blasphemy." Indeed, I did not know, and swearing often pass spontaneously, when the child bored. However, in some later age (seven years, for example), but the child better understand the meaning of cursing and swearing, but then it is a sign of aggression.

Sometimes parents are hoping that the child, if you enroll in multiple sports, and so ensure that he spends the accumulated energy, be less prone to swearing. It is often the case - the child is in training "empty" and then be relatively calm. However, sometimes, it continues to curse and that spanking does not help either - just infuriate him even more.

In such cases, the manifestation of aggression against a child, parents will not help. The child is obviously bothered by something, otherwise they would not have acted. Make no mistake, we do not claim that the child should just let it run all you want, but in this case, you might prefer to wait for it to be in good spirits, and then with him gently and with lots of love to talk and try to find out what is it that bothers him, because it is so aggressive towards you. Maybe he misses your attention, and not in other ways that attract? It is possible that there is a problem that does not know how to solve, and knows how to tell you about it?

Once you solve the problem that causes the aggression of the child, you should stop swearing. If necessary, do not be ashamed to seek help of a therapist (a psychologist who deals with children and their problems) - it does not make you a bad or unfit mother, but on the contrary, a mother who is in every possible way tries to help his child.

No comments:

Post a Comment

Note: Only a member of this blog may post a comment.