The birth of a child is immeasurable happiness and something we live for. When a child is born, your life will be completely changed. Each of us quickly discovers how much patience is required for the proper upbringing of children. Sometimes your child that you love more than life, know how to bring you to insanity.
Patience is a skill that is learned day by day.
Have you ever seen how much patience you have when you have an audience and people who are watching you? In your home, there are quite opposite situation, because the smallest things take you to the edge.
Each of us knows what is patience. How many times have we kept quiet about some things, because we want to left a good impression on someone. I see no reason why not to use reserves of patience in communicating with our children.
In certain situations, we know how to keep a cool head, consciously and carefully choose words and reactions.
This clearly shows how accurate the claim that our patient is our choice and decision that we make all alone. At any time we can show as much patience as we want.
Patience is somethind that we need to learn every day. Sometimes it is enough just a desire to keep a cool head.
However, there are some situations in life that are out of our control, when slightest thing leads us to madness, especially when our children are constantly repeated actions that we do not approve. The fact is that we love our children more than life, but it is also true the claim that children are great little manipulators and constantly testing our limits and patience.
This happens when we are tired, stressed and when you're hungry. Our child does not want to brush his teeth, leaving a mess behind and ready for hours even though he knows that we are in a hurry. You shoot at the seams.
In those moments, it is enough to recognize such situations and try to avoid them. Take a deep breath, count to ten, rolled his eyes to yourself. Accept it and move on to the next step.
Deep breathing releases tension, preventing the eruption of anger, breathe deeply and concentrate on more important things, and that is the relationship that you build with your child.
Spanking is not the solution. Spanking undermines trust between parents and children. A child will listen to you, but only temporarily, because he feels fear. This does not mean that your child respects you and respect is all that you want.
Angry people only concentrate on the problem. When you breathe deeply, you have enough time to change the focus. Keep the reaction of anger and patiently explain to the child what to do. Use a gentle, normal, calm tone. Ask your child if he needs help?
Sometimes ask yourself: "What is the sense to be impatient?"
You do not need to be a little Napoleon in all situations. Does really everything needs to be as you want?
Have you ever seen how much patience you have when you have an audience and people who are watching you? In your home, there are quite opposite situation, because the smallest things take you to the edge.
Each of us knows what is patience. How many times have we kept quiet about some things, because we want to left a good impression on someone. I see no reason why not to use reserves of patience in communicating with our children.
In certain situations, we know how to keep a cool head, consciously and carefully choose words and reactions.
This clearly shows how accurate the claim that our patient is our choice and decision that we make all alone. At any time we can show as much patience as we want.
Patience is somethind that we need to learn every day. Sometimes it is enough just a desire to keep a cool head.
However, there are some situations in life that are out of our control, when slightest thing leads us to madness, especially when our children are constantly repeated actions that we do not approve. The fact is that we love our children more than life, but it is also true the claim that children are great little manipulators and constantly testing our limits and patience.
This happens when we are tired, stressed and when you're hungry. Our child does not want to brush his teeth, leaving a mess behind and ready for hours even though he knows that we are in a hurry. You shoot at the seams.
In those moments, it is enough to recognize such situations and try to avoid them. Take a deep breath, count to ten, rolled his eyes to yourself. Accept it and move on to the next step.
Deep breathing releases tension, preventing the eruption of anger, breathe deeply and concentrate on more important things, and that is the relationship that you build with your child.
Spanking is not the solution. Spanking undermines trust between parents and children. A child will listen to you, but only temporarily, because he feels fear. This does not mean that your child respects you and respect is all that you want.
Angry people only concentrate on the problem. When you breathe deeply, you have enough time to change the focus. Keep the reaction of anger and patiently explain to the child what to do. Use a gentle, normal, calm tone. Ask your child if he needs help?
Sometimes ask yourself: "What is the sense to be impatient?"
You do not need to be a little Napoleon in all situations. Does really everything needs to be as you want?
Maybe you just terrorizing the environment and your own children? Many situations are not stressful, just we experience them as stressful.
Right patience, which makes life easier for us, asking profound changes. Every parent needs to look deep into himself and feel the basic difference between the situation in which chooses between patience and anger.
Patience is always there when you children from the perspective of love. When we see them as someone who is holding us back in an otherwise perfect life, we will never find peace and patience. Unfortunately, our families suffer because of our well programmed schedule.
In contrast, the patient has a positive effect on the entire family climate and helps everyone to feel happy, loved and to be confident in himself. The next time you decide to go crazy over nonsense, remember this present topics.
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