Your little baby is suddenly a real thief and Wiggles. Every day is testing your limits and patience. You get the sense that slowly lose control of their child? It is not easy being a good parent and it is impossible to be a perfect parent. We all have our little and big crises, large and small dilemmas, big and small fears. How many times have you been asked: Will I fail to make a man out of this tiny creatures?
Sometimes you feel helpless and you feel that your hard work and your words do not reach your child. Hysteria and crying you crazy. And it must have snapped it clear that hysterical attacks near you fail.
The most important thing in situations when your child becomes hysteric and when you bring it to the border of insanity is to control your own emotions. Just calm and confident in themselves and their attitudes can improve your child's behavior.
Below are few tips that will hopefully be used for many of you:
1 You have to control your own emotions and behavior. You have to stay calm. If this is not possible, then you need to practice humility. Breathe deeply several times a day, and speak a message to you calming.
2 You must devise a plan to deal with the child's tantrum. You need to be unanimous in their attitudes towards the child. By no means do not let your husband in a fit of rage on the side of the child. The child must have a clear, loud and decisive message from both parents.
Most of the burden of raising children is to be a single parent. If you're a single parent with children's outbursts always be consistent. Tell your child what you think, but do not argue with him.
No giving up, give in if children's anger and unacceptable behavior, then behave irrationally and as bad as your child.
You need to be reasonable, and your child will be reasonable.
When the situation is over, but do not be untouchable. The child should be given a chance to apologize, but it should not be allowed to do so formally.
If your child has made the whole scene by throwing objects, hitting a younger sibling, cursing, then make him to just clean up the mess that was made, and the obligatory apology.
When a child realizes he has done something bad, then it will also leaurn important lesson.
If your child starts to hysterical outside the house and that is thrown away and yells at the supermarket, do not tell him that it will no longer run out. Tell that followed the ban chocolate, candy and other sweets he loves.
Your child needs to learn to accept "no".
And never forget to praise your children when you do something nice.
Sometimes you feel helpless and you feel that your hard work and your words do not reach your child. Hysteria and crying you crazy. And it must have snapped it clear that hysterical attacks near you fail.
The most important thing in situations when your child becomes hysteric and when you bring it to the border of insanity is to control your own emotions. Just calm and confident in themselves and their attitudes can improve your child's behavior.
Below are few tips that will hopefully be used for many of you:
1 You have to control your own emotions and behavior. You have to stay calm. If this is not possible, then you need to practice humility. Breathe deeply several times a day, and speak a message to you calming.
2 You must devise a plan to deal with the child's tantrum. You need to be unanimous in their attitudes towards the child. By no means do not let your husband in a fit of rage on the side of the child. The child must have a clear, loud and decisive message from both parents.
Most of the burden of raising children is to be a single parent. If you're a single parent with children's outbursts always be consistent. Tell your child what you think, but do not argue with him.
No giving up, give in if children's anger and unacceptable behavior, then behave irrationally and as bad as your child.
You need to be reasonable, and your child will be reasonable.
When the situation is over, but do not be untouchable. The child should be given a chance to apologize, but it should not be allowed to do so formally.
If your child has made the whole scene by throwing objects, hitting a younger sibling, cursing, then make him to just clean up the mess that was made, and the obligatory apology.
When a child realizes he has done something bad, then it will also leaurn important lesson.
If your child starts to hysterical outside the house and that is thrown away and yells at the supermarket, do not tell him that it will no longer run out. Tell that followed the ban chocolate, candy and other sweets he loves.
Your child needs to learn to accept "no".
And never forget to praise your children when you do something nice.
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