What do you think - how long should accompany children to school, when they should be allowed to go there yourself and get yourself back there?
A child crying the first day of school year
- Crying is an indication of school phobia and should be taken seriously. It mostly occurs in young children who are difficult to separate from parents and UNLACQUERED gain confidence in other people, usually in the firstand 2 grade. In such situations it is good to spend time parent with a child in the classroom or at the door. It is important that the child sees mom or dad talk to the teacher and other children and the only way to gain confidence in the new environment. The worst thing a child is crying due to leave at home.
2 The child is afraid of going to school
- As much as 30 percent at the beginning of school children showed aversive reactions. Children who are afraid of school often complain that they have a headache, feel bellyache, vomiting, their hearts pounding, sweat excessively, have trouble sleeping. Whether these reactions persist longer than a month, should seek medical attention.
3 How long should accompany the child to school
- There are no rules. Experts recommend that children be monitored until it feels safe to be alone go to school time, and it will only show when he no longer needs help. Seeking the help of a child for over a year, you should contact an expert.
4 When school children have to sleep
- Numerous studies have shown that many children come to school sleepy. School children need eight to 10 hours of sleep. This means that babies should not be allowed to go to sleep after 22 hours, a high school no later than midnight. It is very important for parents to control children in order to avoid the whole night spent watching television or dopisujući with friends.
5 What must be the TV or Playstation
- As little as possible. Experts recommend that the total time for playing games and watching television is a maximum of two hours a day. In addition, computer and television is certainly not set in their bedroom. It is important to control the content with which children come into contact via a TV or computer.
6 When you give him a cell phone and be with him in the school
- Mobile is best to buy it later, not before 5 grade. But if it has in the past, a child needs to learn that can not be 24 hours a day on the phone. Many schools have already banned the adoption of mobile phones to school.
7 A child can not sit 45 minutes
- Most children can not be. In general, the children every 15 minutes after changing position. According to CNES, which this year will be implemented in all primary schools, the task is to master during a lesson, change the six situations. A good teacher will not tolerate that the children walked with permission, go to the toilet, a restless child will engage to remove plaque, zašilje pen and the like.
8 Should children with learning and homework
- It does. The child should be shown how to learn, not learn it for him. The task of parents to control whether the child fulfilled all academic obligations. The child is happier if you just write the task, but if a parent does for him.The first time you write a task rather than a parent of the child, forever undermined his confidence.
9 The child is exposed to bullying
- Bullying is a serious problem. Even 27 percent of school children exposed to violence, while 16 percent of them make up their own violence. More difficult to detect female bullying because girls mature earlier and practice specific forms of violence. They usually isolated and the other girls gossiping or using tricks, while in boys is mainly about the physical life balance.
10 How to dress for school
- Most importantly, the children comfortable in your clothes. The school should not be a fashion runway, but teachers should not panic if you raise the girls came to school našminkanih lips and nails. Experts warn about how to dress for the school to talk with children from first grades to avoid that children have of the brand shoes, pants, or be subjected to violence cell phone, which is unfortunately common in schools.
11 How often should I go for information
- If you need every day, and at least once every two weeks. As soon as you notice that the child feels unsafe and that there is a problem with the school should discuss this with the child is his tutor.
12 The child avoids school
- Marking one of the major problems in school. Experts are divided over whether to justify the hours the child, as a sign of trust, or not, because it was a message that such behavior is wrong. It is important that parents be aware of the mark and the child to speak with him about why he did it.
13 wants to go out at night, how many hours
- It is individual. Best be guided by the fact that most children are not in his class. We should not succumb to the child's statements like "Everyone laughs, but I do not." It is also important for parents to personally know the children with whom their children come out, and it is well known and their parents.
14 The child received the first unit
- It should be understood as an event that will make your child more mature. Around this we must not panic, much less to punish the child because it may be a consequence of the fear of school.
15 The type of activities as a child
- Children may not be loaded with too many activities. The best recipe is the one child - a leisure activity.
