Why is my child presumptuous?

Respect is taught from an early age. Modern times and modern lifestyle more and more away from children basic moral values. Wondering why your child is poignantly, sometimes brusquely, outrageously, why do not comply, why you like, rolling his eyes, grins and throws the room? 

Maybe the problem is in you? You may not have enough patience and you may not deserve respect. 

Below are some tips on how you should act when you feel lack of respect by his own child. 


Stay cool and keep cool 

From your answer depends on whether your relationship with your child to go in a positive or negative direction. If you're too soft "brazen" behavior will only get worse. They must not be too hard, because it is a double edged sword. The children show a revolt against terror.  Be sure the child is raised by domineering parents who have problems in communicating with other people. Do not pronounce the sentence: "How dare you, I am your mother." Rather than go wild, stay cool, calm and collected. Take a deep breath, count to ten and think carefully about what you say in a given situation. Say to your child that you will talk later, when both heads are cool, but keep the spoken word. 


Discover the real cause of the bad behavior of your child 
The real reason may be hidden and the best thing you can do is to talk with your child. Find out if your little sunshine has problems with his friends in kindergarten,  school or front yard, and anger vented on the parents. Watch how he acts when he gets back from kindergarten, school or games with friends. Ask your child if something bad happened at school? When you discover the cause, the solution is easy to find. 

Set limits 

Children need to know who is the boss in the house. You can not be too flexible in relation to your child. To be respected you must be a little to be afraid of. Just yesterday you were obedient child that you still pronounced the sentence: "Oh, get off my door." Children often imitate their friends. Check with the company he keeps. Tell him that it's okay to sometimes not in the mood for a story, but there is a better way to communicate to you. 
Clearly and loudly say that shouting and disrespectful behavior unacceptable and will be followed by sanctions. 
This may be the loss of certain privileges, extra chores that will have to do, less allowance or early retirement to bed . Have knows in advance what the possible penalties, as there would be no surprises. You have to persevere, be consistent and stick to the rules you set yourself. This is the only way to show that you are serious. 

Be careful what you say in front of your child. 

Parents are role model for their children. Children learn through imitation. When you talk rudely with family members, the kids will think it's normal pattern of behavior. Teach your children respect for others from an early age. 


Praise your children 

Note that when a child friendly, rewarding and respectful sure to praise. It is a sign of approval, children are given an extra incentive and reassuring. 

What you should not promise to your children?

Never forget that children are very smart and great to remember all that they promise. How many times have you surprised when  your little kid reminds you of something that you have promised him a long time ago? 

Never make promises, if you are not able to fulfill. Otherwise, your child will experience great disappointment and it will slowly lose trust in their parents.

Below are some tips related to the fact that children do not need these kind of promises.

Professor of dealing with upbringing and education of children and the author of books for children, Sylvia Rus emphasizes the fact that children are "big sticklers" when it comes to promises.
The spoken word becomes your responsibility.
Every time you say a lie you lose part of your child's confidence.

One of the bad sentence: "I promise it will not hurt"

Pain is a subjective feeling. Even the little things that you are innocent, they can really hurt your child. When you remove the patch, clean the wound and the like, it is much better to say: "It may hurt a little, but it will soon pass."

For all too busy moms and dads, very bad sentence for your children is: "I promise I'll be home before you go to bed."
Children are intelligent creatures and they will understand if you tell them: "I will do my best to get home as soon as possible."
One should always be careful when it comes to circumstances beyond your control, such as emergency appointments, traffic jams, an inevitable lectures. 

Do not make promises  for children to play with a buddy, if you are not able to fulfill the promise.

Never buy and bribe their own child. A sentence like "I promise I'll take you for ice cream when you clean your room," I will not build the character of your child. Much better sound statement: "You need to clean up your toys, because someone could trip over and fall".


Help your child to learn to appreciate the value of books and learning, rather than at any price he wants to be the best. Never be satisfied with the fact that a child learns, because he wants to meet you. You need to create a successful man from a small child. Say: "Writing Domestic will help you to grow, learn and become a better person."

When your child is sad, do not promise it will be better tomorrow. Say: "It sounds like you had a tough day."


Your child wants something special and you want to give him, but more trips require more planning and investment. Together with your child, make a piggy bank and remove the money for your common dream.

Never forget that children are intelligent beings, have excellent judgment and a very strong emotion. 

Why children are naughty sometimes?

Never forget the fact that children are born good. Children's attitudes and their behavior shapes the environment. First of all, are the parents because children every day looking for role models in the behavior of their parents. Children should not be ignored and neglected. neglect of the child leads to the accumulation of revolt and anger in them, because the children have their own personality and their pride. 

Children often make mistakes, sometimes they want to attract your attention. Sometimes everything seems deliberately planned scenario be annoying and lead to the edge of the nerve.
Children really want to overcome many of the limitations that are imposed on him. Do not overdo it with the hinges. Do not exaggerate your fears. Even the birds love freedom.

Outbursts of anger, screaming, noise, hitting, banging, throwing objects, resistance to the parents and breaking the rules only way to find your child's personality and express their views. All of these are transient phase that you must have endless patience. Every age has its own characteristics.

Children are curious. Out of curiosity often takes bad behavior.  I'm sure you will dream up many troubles which have fortunately always end well. Children's curiosity has no limits, but it is the best ally for the development of children's intelligence .. You need to understand that children do not make trouble because they want to be mean, but because they want to make a scientific experiment.

Children perform troubles due to communication problems.

Immaturity is also one of the reasons why your child may be terribly upset. All children do not mature at the same pace. Sometimes it is difficult to distinguish the good from the bad. When you go to kindergarten, many things will change. In kindergarten will also encounter a variety of prohibitions, restrictions and obstacles, and will result in outbursts of frustration and dissatisfaction. Talk with your child, help him to overcome its internal problems. Children do not know suppress their emotions when they express it is to crack.
It may not be called "bad behavior" and "problem child."

At one point, the children want more freedom and independence. Also, days are coming when they will deliberately test your patience and bounds. Every child at one point expresses aggression, because it fights for its place and its own identity.

You should always have enough heat and patience to your child on the right track, the path of love, honesty and genuine human values.
Nobody in the world does not love you more and more honest than your child and no one in the world you need as your child. 

What the children inherit from their parents?

How many times have you scared about the possibility of a child inheriting a disease from you? Right at the outset I must emphasize the fact that in medicine there are no written rules that apply to all. You can never know for sure whether your child will inherit a disease or you have some in your family. However, the fact is that with high probability the disease transmitted from generation to generation and the transmission probability can be calculated. 

Today there are some genetic techniques which even before pregnancy can calculate the probability of inheritance of certain diseases. A concrete proposal is that before a planned pregnancy, if in your family there are certain diseases must consult a good and smart geneticists.

Half of our genes and the traits we get from the mother and half from the father. DNA is the most amazing molecule in nature, our genetic code and spirals which are written our destiny and our lives.

Do you have allergies, suffer from migraines and acne, your teeth are not that great? Does your child have similar problems?


Allergies are inherited. If both parents have allergic constitution, the likelihood that a child will have allergies is about 60%. If one parent has allergies, chances are your child succeed allergy is 40% .. If anyone in the family suffers from allergies chance that the baby inherits falls to 10%. Allergic or atopic constitution tendency is inherited, but the disease can be provoked, and a number of other factors, such as contact with allergens, industrialization, living in polluted cities. The most common cause of allergies include pollen of different plants, house dust mites and food. A

Allergy to detect as early as possible. At present time, allergy testing directly from blood. There are other methods of allergy tests. If your child has a change on the skin very itchy and if there is interference with breathing, if it is often a runny nose, coughing and a tearing of the eyes, always an allergic search.

Cavities and bad teeth are also hereditary, although a major role in the development of these diseases play a bacteria and inadequate oral hygiene. Be sure to brush your teeth. Your kids imitate you at every step, and that it does not realize it. Disturbances in chewing due to poor jaw position also causes diseases of the teeth.Take your child to the dentist regularly. Recommended two inspections per year.


Interference with vision are also hereditary. In particular, this applies to short-sightedness. If both parents carry the glasses there is a strong likelihood that the children will wear glasses. In addition to nearsightedness, farsightedness and inherit astigmatism. Color blindness (inability to recognize colors) are also transmitted to the male children. If you have vision problems, your child is sure to take your eye examination in the first year of life.

A large number of psychological disorders are inherited. Depression is an inherited disease. If someone in the family suffers from depression, the risk increases to 50%. When I talk about depression mean clinically confirmed depression, not to frequent changes of mood, which is most of us prefer. With depression is inherited only a preference, but the environment has a decisive influence on the expression of the disease.Keep track of your child's emotional development, especially in puberty and adolescence.

Skin diseases such as psoriasis and eczema are often hereditary. Atopic dermatitis is inherited, psoriasis is also inherited.


Bronchial asthma is a group of inherited diseases. The first signs of the disease is usually manifested in childhood. If one parent suffers from asthma, the chance that a child will suffer approximately 25%. If your child has frequent bronchitis and wheezing find a good pulmonologist. Maybe it is asthma. This disease is very important to start treatment on time, because it can avoid permanent damage to the lungs.


The constitution and structure of the body to inherit. If both parents are large, it is unlikely that their child will be fine. If the parents are obese there is a chance that a child will be obese as a child takes on bad eating habits from their parents. Make sure that your kids food. Do not let them spend the whole day in front of TVs and computers. Some play sports, play and socialize with other children.

Remember how we just played well until it was too much computer and television channels. 

What if your child is taken you to the madness?

Your little baby is suddenly a real thief and Wiggles. Every day is testing your limits and patience. You get the sense that slowly lose control of their child? It is not easy being a good parent and it is impossible to be a perfect parent. We all have our little and big crises, large and small dilemmas, big and small fears. How many times have you been asked: Will I fail to make a man out of this tiny creatures?

Sometimes you feel helpless and you feel that your hard work and your words do not reach your child. Hysteria and crying you crazy. And it must have snapped it clear that hysterical attacks near you fail.

The most important thing in situations when your child becomes hysteric and when you bring it to the border of insanity is to control your own emotions. Just calm and confident in themselves and their attitudes can improve your child's behavior.

Below are few tips that will hopefully be used for many of you:

1 You have to control your own emotions and behavior. You have to stay calm. If this is not possible, then you need to practice humility. Breathe deeply several times a day, and speak a message to you calming.

2 You must devise a plan to deal with the child's tantrum. You need to be unanimous in their attitudes towards the child. By no means do not let your husband in a fit of rage on the side of the child. The child must have a clear, loud and decisive message from both parents.

Most of the burden of raising children is to be a single parent. If you're a single parent with children's outbursts always be consistent. Tell your child what you think, but do not argue with him.

No giving up, give in if children's anger and unacceptable behavior, then behave irrationally and as bad as your child.

You need to be reasonable, and your child will be reasonable.

When the situation is over, but do not be untouchable. The child should be given a chance to apologize, but it should not be allowed to do so formally.

If your child has made the whole scene by throwing objects, hitting a younger sibling, cursing, then make him  to just clean up the mess that was made, and the obligatory apology.

When a child realizes he has done something bad, then it will also leaurn  important lesson.

If your child starts to hysterical outside the house and that is thrown away and yells at the supermarket, do not tell him that it will no longer run out. Tell that followed the ban chocolate, candy and other sweets he loves.

Your child needs to learn to accept "no".

And never forget to praise your children when you do something nice.

It is not easy being a single mother

We all want to have a happy family, but for many of us life destroy childhood dreams. At one point, everything looks perfect, then life changes overnight. Do you know how hard it is being a single parent? Our society is unfortunately full of prejudice against single parents. Life of a single mother carries significant challenges, huge responsibility, care, dedication and daily dread what the next day will bring.

Luckily only a sincere and happy smile of your favorite little creatures gives incredible strength and energy to get them out of the way.

Below are some tips to help single mothers a little help with daily living.

Do not neglect yourself

Do what you love. Dedicate one part time only himself. The finishing touches. Buy yourself a new pair of shoes. Satisfaction with their appearance brings a smile to your face and brings optimism into your life.

Create a support network

Your close family and friends are fewer columns in your life. Do not forget the fact that widening the circle of friends can make positive changes in your life and ease the daily struggle.

Show what you feel

Do not suppress your emotions. Hide the sadness, anger and tears is not good for your health. Cry all times, because the tears you can come back to life. Say what you feel, write the paper, write elektronic diary, just do not keep the sadness inside. Repressed emotions causes a number of health problems, heart problems and cancer.

Save money

Life is too expensive nowadays, but it is still a small amount of money can be left in the piggy bank for better times. You need to have control over the finances. So will your sleep be peaceful and daily apprehension reduced. If there is a sign a life insurance policy.

Think Positive

Crucial skills for single mothers to think only positive and avoid any negative thoughts. If you enter into a vortex of negative thoughts, it's a vicious circle that is terribly difficult to get out. It is not good for you or your baby. Discard the pain, sorrow, regret, guilt, think of the nice things that you've lived and you will live again. Proceed boldly, with a smile on your  face.

Never forget that you are the greatest living role model for your child.

Be proud of every day that you have brought smiles to others. 

Why our children are most concerned?

Make a man a child is the greatest challenge and responsibility of every parent. The toughest job in life is to raise a child properly. On the education of children affected by numerous factors parents, school, relatives, neighbors, friends, comrades, teachers. However, when something goes wrong then surely the duty are parents.

Children and adults have their own small and big hassle to bother them and they are exposed to daily stress. Below are some tips about how to midnight the child to cope with their problems

School

In our society, even small children to be overly concerned about success in school, sports and other activities. Help your child to find activities that are doing fine and enjoying and give him the support that effort, continue to exercise and celebrate small and large successes. As far as school, help children to organize daily tasks. On Sundays, they help to create a weekly schedule of commitments. Encourage them, even when the results are worse than expected. Help them to understand that there are problems that can be solved by persistent effort, learning and training. Collaborate with teachers and the school psychologist, develop confidence and self-esteem in a child, have a story of success and failure in school.

Boredom is ravaged children

Children crave stimulation, so that they can become restless if they have no obligations after school. This way I can acquire bad habits and make bad choices, such as eating junk food and too much time spent watching TV or playing video games. After-school programs and regular physical activity for a period of one hour each day can provide a healthy way of spending time in the afternoon. Additional activities, if well directed, increase the activity of the child in the "right direction", reduce boredom and improve sleep quality.

Children need to eat regularly

Skipping meals or snacks to replace it difficult for children to maintain a balanced energy throughout the day. In addition, hunger negatively affects children's ability to concentrate on a healthy diet and regular, which can cause problems with weight.

Follow the in-house rules: three meals and two snacks a day, which is feasible for most families. In addition, studies show that when children eat together with family members several times a week, you tend to be happier and healthier eating. Provide your child regularly breakfast, but it is not every day "fast food".Children need to have a hot cooked meal at least three or four times a week and keep fruits and vegetables on the table. Do not forget that obesity in children will provide a basis for obesity in adulthood and increased risk of cardiovascular complications.

Children are difficult to tolerate changes

Children under 6 years old still can not talk about stress, but become moody after the great change, when things look bad to them. Any change in routine, such as a new school, a new job or moving parents - can turn the world upside down, and this can affect the parents, brothers and sisters.

Observe a few daily rituals such as meals at a certain time, Afternoon walk or time to read the story. Kids who know what to expect, feel more relaxed, and will feel all around them. When you change your school or you move, pay more attention to children to help them overcome and submitted the "big" change.

Too much time in front of screens

TV or video games may act as a relaxation, but watch the screen does not act as a relaxing reading a book or talking to someone. In addition, time spent watching television often leads to excessive snacking and improper seating.

Limit the time spent in front of the screen to a maximum of two hours a day. I do not let you eat in front of the TV, because it distracts attention and awareness reduces the size of the portions, feeling of fullness and communication in the family. The screen can not replace the lack of parents, walking or sport. Spend time with your children.

Overly burdensome obligations

Teenagers may look happy and calm while chat with friends, listening to music, doing homework, snacks, eat snacks, or all at once. But multitasking is tiring and stressful than you think many parents and children.


Too much time spent indoors

Children, like adults, feel better when I can get out into nature. One study showed that patients in the hospital showed a faster recovery because they see trees from their windows.

Plan a family walk in the fresh air every day after school. Take children walk to school instead of drive, take a walk to the ice cream or cake shops to bars to "hot chocolate" or pastry. Go ice skating, game or amusement park with your child.