Respect is taught from an early age. Modern times and modern lifestyle more and more away from children basic moral values. Wondering why your child is poignantly, sometimes brusquely, outrageously, why do not comply, why you like, rolling his eyes, grins and throws the room?
Maybe the problem is in you? You may not have enough patience and you may not deserve respect.
Below are some tips on how you should act when you feel lack of respect by his own child.
Stay cool and keep cool
From your answer depends on whether your relationship with your child to go in a positive or negative direction. If you're too soft "brazen" behavior will only get worse. They must not be too hard, because it is a double edged sword. The children show a revolt against terror. Be sure the child is raised by domineering parents who have problems in communicating with other people. Do not pronounce the sentence: "How dare you, I am your mother." Rather than go wild, stay cool, calm and collected. Take a deep breath, count to ten and think carefully about what you say in a given situation. Say to your child that you will talk later, when both heads are cool, but keep the spoken word.
Discover the real cause of the bad behavior of your child
The real reason may be hidden and the best thing you can do is to talk with your child. Find out if your little sunshine has problems with his friends in kindergarten, school or front yard, and anger vented on the parents. Watch how he acts when he gets back from kindergarten, school or games with friends. Ask your child if something bad happened at school? When you discover the cause, the solution is easy to find.
Set limits
Children need to know who is the boss in the house. You can not be too flexible in relation to your child. To be respected you must be a little to be afraid of. Just yesterday you were obedient child that you still pronounced the sentence: "Oh, get off my door." Children often imitate their friends. Check with the company he keeps. Tell him that it's okay to sometimes not in the mood for a story, but there is a better way to communicate to you.
Clearly and loudly say that shouting and disrespectful behavior unacceptable and will be followed by sanctions.
This may be the loss of certain privileges, extra chores that will have to do, less allowance or early retirement to bed . Have knows in advance what the possible penalties, as there would be no surprises. You have to persevere, be consistent and stick to the rules you set yourself. This is the only way to show that you are serious.
Be careful what you say in front of your child.
Parents are role model for their children. Children learn through imitation. When you talk rudely with family members, the kids will think it's normal pattern of behavior. Teach your children respect for others from an early age.
Praise your children
Note that when a child friendly, rewarding and respectful sure to praise. It is a sign of approval, children are given an extra incentive and reassuring.
