What if a child does not stop cursing?

There is hardly a child at least at some point is not cursed, but some children do much more than others.Children, sometimes, know to be very persistent with curses, the crazy parents who could not manage to unlearn old child, and nasty habits.

Children from two, three, four, when they curse, in principle, to make no real understanding of what it is saying, but they like the reaction of adults to hear - they are sometimes allowed, sometimes angry, but rarely seriously angry , the principle of "know what this little child what is blasphemy." Indeed, I did not know, and swearing often pass spontaneously, when the child bored. However, in some later age (seven years, for example), but the child better understand the meaning of cursing and swearing, but then it is a sign of aggression.

Sometimes parents are hoping that the child, if you enroll in multiple sports, and so ensure that he spends the accumulated energy, be less prone to swearing. It is often the case - the child is in training "empty" and then be relatively calm. However, sometimes, it continues to curse and that spanking does not help either - just infuriate him even more.

In such cases, the manifestation of aggression against a child, parents will not help. The child is obviously bothered by something, otherwise they would not have acted. Make no mistake, we do not claim that the child should just let it run all you want, but in this case, you might prefer to wait for it to be in good spirits, and then with him gently and with lots of love to talk and try to find out what is it that bothers him, because it is so aggressive towards you. Maybe he misses your attention, and not in other ways that attract? It is possible that there is a problem that does not know how to solve, and knows how to tell you about it?

Once you solve the problem that causes the aggression of the child, you should stop swearing. If necessary, do not be ashamed to seek help of a therapist (a psychologist who deals with children and their problems) - it does not make you a bad or unfit mother, but on the contrary, a mother who is in every possible way tries to help his child.

What if your child starts to curse?

You'll be quite surprised when one day your well-behaved child utters the first bad word. Cursing was heard somewhere in the street, and was accepted as a way of speaking adults. And while a lot of confidence carries you (lest I learned a new term from the adult world), you simply dumbfounded. I do not know what to do?

First, do not go beyond that and to pretend that you have not heard anything. "Bad language" is often used in order to draw attention to themselves, or as an attempt to test your reaction. Do not react to the children's laughter, cursing, so no matter how you look.

Ask your child if he knew what the word means, most do not know. On his way to understand and explain the meaning of the word consult him: such words are not welcome in your home.

Some parents still practice the old fashioned way of "healing" from "dirty" language - and a quick pat on the child's lips. If you are a supporter of this method, then to run with a hug and a kiss.

Introduce fines, according to the system "one bad word one dinar." This is possible only in a slightly later age when the child already has its own pocket.

You can let them free to use words that only the elect, but he is suggested to be pronounced in a place that is appropriate to do so - in the bathroom. You'll see how quickly give up their original intentions. It's not so fun "shock" himself, in such a dull place.